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What are your biggest turn offs?

222 replies

PepsiFan77 · 07/10/2020 21:34

Someone who is too argumentive.

OP posts:
coronafiona · 07/10/2020 22:22

Selfishness, jealousy, poor table manners

Sohardtochooseausername · 07/10/2020 22:22

Oohhh I thought of a new one: rude to the waiter/waitress.

NessieMcNessface · 07/10/2020 22:23

Poor hygiene
Poor table manners
Antisocial habits
Use of vulgar/bad language

Purplealienpuke · 07/10/2020 22:26

Liars
Cheats
Bad personal hygiene including teeth
Know it alls
Misogynists
Gamers
Long finger nails
Unadventurous in the bedroom

Misshapencha0s · 07/10/2020 22:27

Shaved chest or legs
Vain
Tiny willy

Iminaglasscaseofemotion · 07/10/2020 22:31

Long nails. I struggle to look at a man with long nails. It gives me the boak.

Those little white bits of saliva that collect in the corner of some peolles mouths 🤢

SantanaBinLorry · 07/10/2020 22:33

people who, whilst standing put one foot up on a chair/stool/ledge/wall and do a little lunge thing, but not in an excercizy way, just in a weird I'm gonna put my foot up and lunge for no reason kinda way. Its fucking creepy.
That and all peircings apart from a simple ear ring, and even then only just.

Iminaglasscaseofemotion · 07/10/2020 22:34

I would have said bad teeth but poor dp has terrible teeth (neglected as a child and no one ever took him to the dentist). They're not dirty, just awful, still cause him problems as an adult. He couldn't even get them fixed now, he would need a full set of veneers but we just can't afford that.

cheeseislife8 · 07/10/2020 22:35

"Laaads"
Moaning
Poor hygiene
Mansplaining
Arrogance
Those guys that assume they can get any woman to fancy them. They can fuck right off

CherryBlossomTree7 · 07/10/2020 22:37

Definitely someone who is tight with money.

Also:
Poor personal hygiene
A beard that is left growing down the neck

WINDOLENE · 07/10/2020 22:47

Suppose I should say a man with a girlfriend/wife but them being unattainable. WOW biggest turn on.

Turn off.. A man who cries because his football team looses

MaudHatter · 07/10/2020 22:48

Lack of intelligent (not necessarily well educated as there are lots of educated fools ) tattooed , too trendy , lazy , can’t drive , takes or has taken drugs , promiscuous, spend thrift , drives expensive cars , debt , not a home owner .

MaudHatter · 07/10/2020 22:49

And die hard football fans

StylishMummy · 07/10/2020 22:55

Bad breath
Smokers
Knob cheese Envy

Longdistance · 07/10/2020 22:58

Socks and sandals.
Tight with money, tight with love.
Gamers.
Dresses with zero effort.
No sense of humour, someone who is serious and miserable.

userxx · 07/10/2020 22:59

Someone overly thrifty

I need new glasses, read that as someone over thirty.

pallisers · 07/10/2020 23:00

mean
jealous
No sense of humour

FunTimes2020 · 07/10/2020 23:02

Delicate hands, with long thin pale fingers, yuk!

LomasLongstrider · 07/10/2020 23:07

Being daft, but stubborn with it. Thinking about an ex friend who once argued and argued that Jesus spoke English. No amount of showing him pages on google, info pages in my bible etc would convince him otherwise. I kind of fancied him until I realised how dopey he was. He was forever mansplaining too, but was always wrong. Wouldn't believe I, a mere woman could possibly no more about him than anything (when I think the average 10 year old probably had more wit).

LoseLooseLucy · 07/10/2020 23:07

Long fingernails, and/or slender hands
Shower dodgers
Bad breath
Spitter/Litterer

LomasLongstrider · 07/10/2020 23:08

*know more than him about anything

Purplealienpuke · 07/10/2020 23:09

Big one I forgot...
Anyone with a drink problem

ZoominMoomin · 07/10/2020 23:18

Drinkers.
Smokers.
Drug users.
Bad tattoos.
Shaved pubes - looks awful of everyone imo.
Bad breath.
That greasy man smell. You know the one I mean.
Poor hygiene.
Nail chewing/biting.
Doesn't clean up after themselves.
Leaves a dirty toilet.
Obnoxious farting.
Big gut/flabby.
Snorers.
Overly serious.
Racist/sexist/homophobic etc.
Tory.
Fan of sports - legit couldn't date someone who was into sports.
Bad dress sense - aka, dresses like a middle class person - red/salmon trousers, white shirt, horrible brown shoes. You know the type. I like someone with a different kind of style.
Wants kids.
Overly competitive.
Aggressive.
Can't take a joke.

CoffeeInAnIV · 07/10/2020 23:18

Bad personal hygiene and rudeness.

shitinmyhandsandclap · 07/10/2020 23:23

Gaming

Calf tattoos

Bad teeth

Comb overs

Grey joggers

Arse crack showing

Constant farting and belching

Jewellery on men

Untucked shirts with smart trousers

Laziness

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