YANBU at all, you were doing domestic work for your family.
You say My husband works Monday to Friday and has hobbies on two nights a week taking him out of the house from 6-9 both nights plus he is also out Sunday mornings from 8-12. I work part time and generally I'm home doing stuff around the house during the week.
So he has 10 hours a week out of the house, dedicated to his hobby. You have 0 hours a week dedicated to yourself and your own interests.
You need to redress that imbalance.
One Wednesday is what, 9-5? So 8 hours. So actually, you would need to take every Wednesday off, do entirely your own thing to please yourself and take another two hours to yourself, one evening, or at the weekend, every week, to make things even.
I detest the attitude, so prevalent among both men and women, as evidenced by this thread, that women enjoy domestic labour, therefore doing it counts as a hobby or leisure time. Whereas men have to have time dedicated entirely to their own interests, for it to count as 'time off'.
Would your DH regard shopping for gifts for your family members as a leisure activity? As something he'd happily do in his own spare time - his hobby time? Would he bollocks.