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AIBU?

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What the actual hell???

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Ordinarymamma · 05/09/2020 19:17

So....my dh is going away on a motorbike trip next week. He's going quite often with different people and they always bring tents and camp at gorgeous places. As in, a perfect motorbike holiday. This time is very different.....he's going with this other guy, who im not particularly fond of, but thats beside the point. So last night my husband came back from this guys house after they had been planning the trip. Telling me that this guy is taking extra money with him because he's planning on getting a prostitute whilst they're away!! What??? I cant even explain how pissed off I feel about the whole thing! My dh keeps going on, and on, and on and on about how this has got nothing to do with him and just because that guy is doing that doesn't mean he is. Yeah im not even doubting that but that isn't even my point! So.....AIBU for being angry or have i got a point??

OP posts:
MorganKitten · 06/09/2020 18:43

@Ordinarymamma

Yes I've asked why he's told me and his answer was because he tells me everything.....
Would you rather he didn’t tell you?

He might have told you as he feels uncomfortable by it.

Also saying bikers don’t stay in cities/hotels and just camp... erm... you might want to check that, our chapter does both!

MrDarcysMa · 06/09/2020 21:28

@WineGummyBear not ALL sex workers are abused women.

Op does Dh's friend have a partner or anybody he would be cheating on? Or are you just worried your husband may want to visit a sex worker too?

MrDarcysMa · 06/09/2020 21:32

Sorry just rtft that friend is married, I would not be happy about him putting DH in this situation and being complicit in his infidelity.

AverageNSad · 08/09/2020 14:30

Hi @Ordinarymamma how are you?

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