AIBU to feel absolutely insulted by this

[MadameBee]

Suggested to my ex husband that for our DDs 21st birthday we got her citizenship and passport for the country he is from.

No reply.

He decides to do it himself which is fine, I got her another gift.

Tonight she came round with the forms for me to sign. Her stepmother had filled them all in but only allowed her to bring around the last page of the form as she had filled in all DDs details.

I signed the declaration which declares any false information can result in imprisonment or a £250,000 fine.

I haven’t seen what info has been put on the form and DD asked me not to date my signature which I refused to do and dated it.

AIBU to feel this is fucking insulting (as if I had refused to sign this would have massively upset DD but did not want to sign form I haven’t seen all the info in).

That’s unreasonable isn’t it?

I wouldn't have signed without seeing the entire form. It's a legal document with severe consequences for inaccurate information. Your DD is is clearly old enough to understand this and there is absolutely no good reason for not allowing you to see the entire document.

If he asked your DD to forge your signature he is obviously not to be trusted. All the same him or anyone else never sign without reading or getting advise.

Jesus, give the op a break. Some of the replies are nasty. Women ripping another woman down. Great work.

You should never ever sign anything that you don’t know what you’re signing. Why would you do that? You have no idea what you have just signed

Fuck upsetting your daughter. She is a 21, which is plenty old enough to understand/learn that you should never put your signature to something without being exactly sure of what it is you’re signing. Does she even know?