Married man. I know IABU

[Ellia28]

I have been speaking to him for about 6 months.
His wife is pregnant.
We've shared pics, had video chats, spoken about everything for hours and made plans to meet.
I did not know any of this at the start, but now I do and I'm struggling to let go. I know I have to though.
Should I say something or just block him?

[quote Lockheart]@echodot in your rush to be outraged and to kick the OP when she's down, you have completely failed to notice that she didn't know he was married until recently. So I'm not sure what "colluding" you think has been happening.[/quote]
Outraged? Why is the silly girl even asking???

Is she waiting for someone to say, 'Yes love, go ahead'?

Pfft. I feel no sorrow

Do you even have to ask???

Considering the battering you have had I would be surprised if you still read this thread. But here's hoping you do.
Have you started to deal with this problem in your own head?

Is it possible that you have really put him aside and are content that you have done the right thing?

Mini yes, I haven't spoken to him since my last message to him. I didn't reply to his follow up message.
I feel shit about the whole thing, and I feel awful for his wife, but I'm just trying to focus on getting over it myself first.

Good Wishes for you. Get Strong.

So glad you have seen the light and cut him off. Imagine if you were the wife; wouldn't you want to know? You are not the one responsible for her hurt but you are responsible for her still being ignorant about her shit of a husband.