Would you be friends with someone who was overweight?

[alllthingsbright]

Tomorrow I'm meeting with a group of girls I met on an antenatal course.

We haven't seen each other since January when we were all pregnant.

Since the birth of my baby I've gained two stone and I'm now very over weight.

I was 12 and a half stone when I was pregnant and I'm now 14 and a half.

I know 12 stone isn't slim, but I don't think I looked "big" at that weight, where as now I look big and dumpy.
It's really affecting my self esteem and confidence.

I haven't told the girls I've gained weight and I'm worried that once they've seen me tomorrow I'll no longer fit into the friendship group.

Am I overthinking?

I'm considering cancelling.

Agree with BlingLoving. Very glad you had a good time; a bit worried that you seem almost grateful to have 'made the grade' for a further invitation.

Yes of course, it wouldn't even be a consideration and I'm size 10.

I'd love them more for being totally normal