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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask if you are going Out, out tomorrow evening?

187 replies

TheQueef · 03/07/2020 11:53

The media coverage almost seems to encourage people to relax the lockdown and have a blow out!
So I'm wondering....
YABU = off out, need to let off steam.
YANBU = staying safe at home, there's a pandemic.

Anyone else being given the impression we are being encouraged here?

OP posts:
MotherMorph · 03/07/2020 14:12

Meh, no, we dont go out regularly on a saturday anyway . I feel for the businesses but not in a hurry to go out. Might get a takeaway.

crosstalk · 03/07/2020 14:15

No, still shielding a vulnerable person. And still not convinced after the failure of track and trace and the government's handling of all this.

MollieMaeve · 03/07/2020 14:20

Some pubs near us have been open for takeaway for a few drinks and it has been absolute chaos. Crowds drinking in the streets, people urinating everywhere to the extent that the police have had to close places down, loads of litter. Judging how some people have been behaving, not a chance I will be going near a pub anytime soon.

UserErrorMessage · 03/07/2020 14:21

We’re thinking of popping down on Sunday.

CuppaZa · 03/07/2020 14:23

Nope, nope and nope again.
The government do not have our health and best interests at heart. This is to stimulate the economy. More fool the dickheads who actually trust our government.

Tiny37373 · 03/07/2020 14:34

The pubs around me have enforced such strict rules on attending that I don't think it'll be any fun at all. Limited times for the table, booking in advance, name and address submitted on entering, limited numbers allowed in the toilet at the same time and so much more. I get why they are doing it but it sounds dreadful. I'd rather stay home.

Anniecott · 03/07/2020 14:34

Nooooo, I mean I would love to go to my local and sit outside by the river and have a drink but will definitely wait for the rush to die down.
Anyway I'll be too tired as I start back to work tomorrow as a hairdresser 😱

Ghostlyglow · 03/07/2020 14:35

Lots of people don't go out on Saturdays anyway though, do they? Right up into my 30s I went out every Saturday and was always amazed how many of my work colleagues never did, so I'm guessing that hasn't changed much.

Comefromaway · 03/07/2020 14:37

No way. I've got a family night in at the home theatre booked tonight. Nice meal, followed by best seats in the house Sofa Box Row A for Hamilton! No queue for the loos in the interval.

I wont be going out out for a long time yet.

TheRealHousewife · 03/07/2020 14:41

It’s a no from me. Keeping myself safe.

userxx · 03/07/2020 14:43

Lots of people don't go out on Saturdays anyway though, do they?

Errrrrrmmm, loads of people go out on a Saturday - why would you not? It's the perfect day. Don't like going out on a Friday as it's too much of a rush getting in from work and getting ready. Sunday is the day before I'm back to work. Love a Saturday!!

lurker101 · 03/07/2020 14:45

We are going for a relaxed drink in the afternoon (table booked) and dinner (table booked) in the evening.

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 03/07/2020 14:50

I am, yes, because it is a notable birthday for me tomorrow and I'm feeling a bit fed up about having to sit at home and cook. We have a private room booked in a nearby nice pub for dinner and then I shall go back to being locked in my house again.

happymummy12345 · 03/07/2020 14:55

Things are back to normal for us now my husband will be back at work from tomorrow. Not a chance of us going out at all, never is due to the hours he works and having no one to have our son. Back to long days and evenings home alone

GreyGardens88 · 03/07/2020 14:57

Nope, I will wait a couple of weeks. I'm assuming there will be massive queues for every pub, and long waits as it's not like the supermarket

Subeccoo · 03/07/2020 15:01

Yes! I've come to London to stay with family and 12 of us are booked in to a pub tomorrow night. I can't wait. For a variety of reasons this has been the worst year of my life, my mental health wouldn't have coped much longer without seeing my family and doing something normal.

SlipperyLizard · 03/07/2020 15:04

I won’t be going anytime soon (although would love to). I’m not worried about catching the virus myself, but wouldn’t want to pass it to my mum. We’ve just booked a cottage in the UK for a couple of weeks’ time, and if we can’t go due to self isolation will lose the money. So I’ll be very careful between now and then!

I do think this will cause a second wave, though.

AllTheUserNamesAreTaken · 03/07/2020 15:06

We’re not going this weekend. DS is having a couple of nights with Grandma next week so he can a change and I can work in peace. If the weather is nice on those evenings then DH and I might go to a beer garden for a drink

HeadSpin5 · 03/07/2020 15:07

I think the two voting options are very polar - there’s a middle ground! I’m not going ‘out out’ and wouldn’t rush to a city centre pub which could be really busy, but will be happily sitting outside in the huge garden of our local on Sunday afternoon for food and drink.

MirandaWest · 03/07/2020 15:09

DH and I are going out for breakfast at a cafe down the road

HasaDigaEebowai · 03/07/2020 15:11

Nope - having four friends around in the garden

Purplequalitystreet · 03/07/2020 15:12

No, but not because of the virus. More due to having a baby! Also I think tomorrow will be mad. No thanks!
We have a table at a restaurant booked for DP's birthday at the end of July. Looking forward to that!

MrsJBaptiste · 03/07/2020 15:17

I love going out, most Friday & Saturday night pre-Covid I'd be in the pub but tomorrow? No. I want to go put when it's a bit more normal (whenever that will be) and not book a slot in the pub and sit away from other people. All my friends are big drinkers but none of us are in a rush to get to the pub.

So tonight and tomorrow night, I'll be dressing up and staying with DH, cocktails and wine (and the kids!)

notreallybotheredaboutausernam · 03/07/2020 15:25

@GinDaddyRedux

We are of course being encouraged, partially because the Government wants to help stimulate business for those sectors that are late to having restrictions lifted, but moreover because the Government are desperate to appear "in control" of the virus and show progression, show people that everything is normal again.

It's the very thing that a lot of people on this board have called for week in week out. "Why aren't we able to just get on with it?"

Well tomorrow's their answer - yep, from July 4th we can all get on with it. Let's see however whether getting on with it leads to the inevitable second wave. For those people out partying tomorrow, there'll be no telling them - they've held their breath long enough, they want to let loose, and they'll claim mental health and all sorts as factors as to why they should be allowed to go out and drink etc.

Nope, we'll claim "because we can" as why we should be allowed. It is permitted, so who are you to say we can't go out. On here and on FB everyone seems to be saying they won't be going out, and round our way we have to book tables and there are 2 hour slots. Seems like it'll just be me and my boyfriend with the bar staff, so happy days.
Stop claiming it's all terrible before it's even happened!
SomewhereInbetween1 · 03/07/2020 15:25

Going to the pub opposite our house tomorrow for a pint on the lawn. Can't wait 🙂