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DP saying 'I love you' to his ex

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Cheesestring84 · 28/06/2020 20:27

At the end of a phone call and when saying goodbye my dp and his ex say 'I love you'. I told him I find it upsetting and he thinks it is my issue rather than theirs. I know they want to stay friends for the sake of the children but this feels like a step too far. Is it just me?

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Buttercup54321 · 03/07/2020 00:57

I would hate it. He is being extremely disrespectful towards you.

ArnoldSweatyknickers · 03/07/2020 01:29

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0963158b · 03/07/2020 01:49

I wouldn't like it but there's a way in which it could be super.

birthdaybelle · 03/07/2020 01:57

What? No

Greeneyedminx · 03/07/2020 07:23

I would not be comfortable or happy with my DH saying “I love you” to his ex wife.
Although, I did end my phone call to the vet saying “Thanks for all your help with DDog,love you” To which he replied “Love you more” ☺️
I am going to have to change my Ddog’s vet !!!!!!

atomicblonde30 · 03/07/2020 08:41

If my ex ‘I love you’ to me I’d wonder what distressing and bizarre alternate reality I’d entered, alongside vomiting in my own mouth of course . .

I think his wife would be justifiably upset by it also!

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