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To think working from home and looking after//home schooling kids is unsustainable until sept!

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heh1 · 01/06/2020 19:30

Had enough. Dh and I both in pressured busy jobs. Dc in non returning year group

We are surviving by sticking them in front of screens all day when we are on con calls

Don't want to ask for furlough as then my colleagues without dcs or who have much older dcs will get my work ( client focussed sector) and I might be made redundant

Feel pretty rubbish..

House is a shit tip..
Dcs craving attention and largely ignored
Work carrying on like business as usual

Can't manage this until Sept

GPs too far away and in vulnerable category so can't help

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matchboxtwentyunwell · 04/06/2020 16:53

@KillashandraRee

That's really not on, teachers openly posting about their jolly days all over social media during school hours. And actually telling school families that they don't want to go back?! Wow. They should be providing work for students and checking in with families. Schools are still responsible for safeguarding issues during term time as well! Please complain to your LEA as well. The Head of your school isn't doing his/her job if this is being allowed.

Our Head has been very clear about being careful of social media, etc, and we are still providing work for our students who are not back in school. Most of us are now back in school with our KW/vulnerable children, YR, Y1 and Y6 students who have returned, but all pupils at home are still being checked on weekly and work is being provided.

(Great user name, btw. Loved those books back in the day.)

aquashiv · 04/06/2020 17:29

Three teenagers.
Full time career.
Sole breadwinner.
I'm ready for a straight jacket.

nanbread · 04/06/2020 17:34

But I am very aware that a lot of kids are getting an even more raw deal. I’m furious with how children are the absolute lowest priority in all of this.

Yes it's pretty shit.

My children are happy enough being at home and that's great - but I'm very worried for my son who I'm trying to teach myself - he has some mild SEN and I have NO idea whether what we are doing is being absorbed or taught effectively, the impact of him not getting the specialist one on one time he usually gets, etc

Dk20 · 04/06/2020 18:47

After my internet issues were resolved on Tuesday, the last two days havent been too bad here workwise and with the kids, BUT I havent done any schoolwork at all with ds this week Blush. He is 6 and has SEN so needs my help to keep focused. I think at this stage, we will just try and do it on Saturday while the baby is napping.

Stuckforthefourthtime · 04/06/2020 23:19

I had based my previous statement on my own and friends' experiences, but data from an IFS survey of more than 4000 parents shows that between approx 33% and 43% of state primary school families - were given online classes. The 33% representing the poorest third, and 43% representing the richest.

Given that unions have told their employees not to do Zoom live or prerecorded classes, these numbers seem far too high. Does this perhaps include people sharing links to Oak Academy?

nanbread · 05/06/2020 00:33

I'm not sure what Oak Academy is @Stuckforthefourthtime so can't answer that - there's a separate section for online platforms.

This is the link to the study

www.ifs.org.uk/publications/14848

Stuckforthefourthtime · 05/06/2020 09:31

@nanbread that survey is very odd. The union has been strongly against zoom/online classes, and this has been largely followed, especially at primary level. Here, it is 2% of teachers reporting doing any online classes. Oak Academy is national provision of online learning during lockdown, fairly average and very basic, but with online lessons so maybe it means this. It doesn't explain why the primary videochat number is also oddly high, or why they say that 9% of the poorest fifth of households are having private tutoring during the pandemic, which is a very high percentage.
www.google.com/amp/s/schoolsweek.co.uk/coronavirus-teachers-warned-against-live-streaming-lessons/amp/

andweallsingalong · 05/06/2020 10:21

Slight tangent, but why on earth have the Unions advised against online lessons?

I realise not all schools have the resources or free staff, but would have thought online classes would have been the ideal for those who could run them.

Surely no different from the rest of us working from home rather than going in to work.

Stuckforthefourthtime · 05/06/2020 11:22

@andweallsingalong due to safeguarding concerns for students and also teachers, plus concerns that it will further entrench disadvantage - though I personally think that leaving everyone to their own devices and letting the private schools catapult even further ahead, state school families with educated parents at home and time/money to spend do pretty well, and everyone else to languish is hardly the level playing field solution either 🤷🏼‍♀️

www.economist.com/britain/2020/05/16/why-teachers-are-doing-so-little-teaching

andweallsingalong · 05/06/2020 11:41

Thanks @Stuckforthefourthtime

I agree with you.

Around here only one school seems to be doing online lessons and it's well known for being outstanding (offsted and parent feedback).

The poorer performing schools feel like their children are at the most risk of being split between those whose parents who can teach and those who fall further and further behind.

My DC's school are good and send a weekly email with some activities, but between dd being in year 4 (and so unlikely to be any school space for her in the foreseeable) and wfh I've no idea if we're anywhere close to keeping up with her education enough for her not to fall behind.

framboisier · 05/07/2020 12:54

I have put a link in Education but sharing here for the traffic

www.septforschools.org

I know the deadline says midday but I know the person who started this and she is looking at everything submitted and is helping prepare a report for the Education Select Committee

FYI: neither she nor I are journalists
Just sharing this for anyone who feels parents haven't been involved in the conversation so far

Londonmummy66 · 05/07/2020 14:18

THere are lots of teenagers who have had their summer holiday plans decimated and are at a loose end. Some of them would happily spend time with primary school DC doing home school/crafts/sport etc.

Mine are looking to spend their summer doing that as they have had 60 things cancelled between them due to COVID since March including all their summer tours etc.

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