To feel like the only woman left who doesn't shave her pubes? 😂

[phoebemakesnoise]

During a group WhatsApp with friends last night, conversation (somehow!) turned to pubes. It would seem I am the only one who doesn't shave the whole lot off. I've done it a couple of times in the past but it itched when growing back and I actually feel sexier with a bit of a muff! Does anyone else not shave these days or am I a vile ogre?

Maybe a muffin?😂

Genuine question can anyone not do it because of the regrowth??!

Within 24 hours I'm bumpy and so fucking itchy that I want to rip my neither region's off.

It doesn't t matter what method I try.

I'm enjoying a cider. But I think we should stop worrying about other people's bits and pieces now 😃

People. I summoned Muffin! I fucking summoned Muffin!

Ok. Let's try again.
Euromillions numbers🙏

Pre COVID I would go to my waxing lady for a Brazilian. Right now I’m shaving. I don’t mind a little regrowth but not full blown bush.

Seriously anyone who thinks a grown woman looks like a child because she shaves her pubic hair needs to go give their head a wobble. Man or woman. That’s beyond sick.

It’s like something someone once said on here, and a bunch of folks thought, fuck that’s a good insult, I’ll use that.

Grow up.

I don’t. I don’t want my vagina to look like a 10 year old girls. And any man who finds it sexy to shag a woman looking like that makes me feel a bit ick to be honest.

Ooh! Cross posted. Still stand by what I say. We all have different opinions.

Except a your opinion is bullshit and quite frankly, sick.

@FredAstaireAteMyHamSandwich

What do you suggest women with no hair do when they want sex?

I can't believe posters on MN actually sorted out issue of pedophilia 😱
So simple!
We just shave, and shave some men too obviously, cover the rest of the body and voilà! Pedos would never know the difference since even the owners of the genitalia in question don't see any! Omg. Nobel price. Amazing. Give yourself a clap on a side of the head preferably

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No woman should be shamed for shaving or not shaving

Your body, your choice

"wait till you are menopausal like me and it mostly drops out anyway. Saves you a fortune."
Exactly, Bellini 😂

To be fair. My Lady Garden is so overgrown, DP needed a map and SatNav a couple of weeks ago.

As long as he doesn't need a machete to hack through the undergrowth you should both be okay.

(FWIW - my lady parts are similarly lush!)

I've seen every episode a couple of episodes of "Naked Attraction" and there wasn't a single body hair in sight- on either sex.

I thought it looked bloody creepy, TBH. And certainly not erotic.

I always feel itchy and a bit sweaty and pongy if I don't shave sometimes its just a short back and sides but definitely not au natural

Stackthecats I agree with everything you say. The current trend that vulvas must be ‘neat and tidy’ is undoubtably down to porn.

And I agree with Peapod agreeing with Stackthecats

There is a vulnerability and an innocence about hairless pudenda which isn't there with a "natural" fanny bush. I think that's one of the things which makes it so popular in porn, because porn is about control. Young, vulnerable, helpless, inexperienced women are perceived as easier to control.

I don't, never have!

@Bluntness100
Seriously anyone who thinks a grown woman looks like a child because she shaves her pubic hair needs to go give their head a wobble. Man or woman. That’s beyond sick

It’s like something someone once said on here, and a bunch of folks thought, fuck that’s a good insult, I’ll use that

Grow up

Yep agree with all that ^ such a rank, unoriginal thing to say.

Thanks to this thread and with an attitude of fuck it I'm bored, I shaved all mine off last night! For the first time ever! I'm 55 and feeling rebellious. DH took one look and said FUCK ME! and I thought my luck was in but that was not what he meant.

I remove my own fgs. Would I rather live in a world where it felt totally ok to go natural? Of course.

But it is okay? It's not like there's pube police, no-one checks, you've got freedom of choice not to have to do hair removal of a private area.

I don't even bother with my pits usually. I like the way they match my muff

I will sometimes shave them for wearing sleeveless tops but it's to stop judgement and I resent it. I should take my own advice and stop giving a fuck really.

@toomanytowels - Careful! The “Asbestos Knickers” police will come after you and tell you what a terrible sister you are.

Aside from that, welcome to the club ! There are benefits.

Now let the insults flow!

@StarlightLady I'm 55 and I don't give a fuck what anyone else thinks! One of the best things about ageing!

And thanks, do I get a membership card? To put next to my Saga cruise card?

Seriously anyone who thinks a grown woman looks like a child because she shaves her pubic hair needs to go give their head a wobble. Man or woman. That’s beyond sick

But, grown adults have pubic hair, children don't.

Yes it's sick but so is porn and its influence on our society, whether you recognise and understand it or not. Porn promotes sex with very young looking girls.

Similarly, where do you think the "trend" for choking women in sex comes from, and the subsequent deaths "oh dear I seem to have killed my partner but she was asking for it, honest m'lord" come from?

Do you think thousands of men suddenly decided by coincidence they want to hole women or is it from all the porn they watch from a young age?

Same story for the rise in anal sex and the injuries women are sustaining as a result.

It's depressing as fuck, but the influence of porn on our societal norms doesn't go away by pretending it doesn't exist.

Stupid autocorrect.

Should say:

"Do you think thousands of men suddenly decided by coincidence they want to choke women or is it from all the porn they watch from a young age?"