Aibu..boyfriend stuff in lock down

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Am I being a dick? My bf is nor my daughters father. He has 2 kids he barely sees (one night a week usually but only 1 hour a week now with lock down) hes grumpy I'm spending all my time teaching my daughter. I also cook him big breakfast everyday and cook dinner every night. Am I being unreasonable to want some help? All.he does everyday is watch tv, doesnt help with cleaning or washing up. He doesnt ever brush his teeth and wears sane socks for a week despite having clean ones.

Ewww. Your poor dd. She shouldn’t have to put up with this vile specimen in her home. Why haven’t you thrown him out already?

Make sure you do not have a child with this man

Why are you with him OP? He sounds like a disgusting excuse of a man.

Tell him it’s not working out and you’re not cooking today.

Sounds like my exh. Get rid.

Sounds rank. Give yourself a treat and kick the loser out. Do it today, who gives a shit where he goes. Your daughter will thank you. And stop framing it in your head as domestic work being your job that a man might "help" with. Domestic work is the responsibility of every adult living in a house. No one is "helping", no one gets a medal for doing the dishes, everyone pulls their weight equally or they piss off.

What is it about this dirty, lazy, sexist, neglectful father you find attractive, OP?

Get rid.

I'm sorry you're in this relationship OP. You've had good advice on here. Please understand you don't need to settle for a partner like this. You had me at "barely sees his kids" and that was before you said you cooked breakfast & dinner for him, he gets jealous of your child, doesn't brush his teeth or change his clothes. Ugh.

He doesn't brush his teeth?? He'd be out the door quicker than he could say gingivitis

This! Sorry OP

Do you really need a man that badly that a lazy smelly one will do?

And he’s a great addition to your life because why exactly?

The silver lining- you found this out now. He can go lockdown somewhere else!

Does he sleep in the stinky socks or does he remove them at bedtime and put them back on each morning?

He sounds disgusting.

Sounds like he needs to go home now...jealous of your daughter and slabbing around your house being cooked for.
What are you doing?

*slobbing

Why do you cook him a big breakfast every day?

Do not waste your time.

Do you want to be with a man who resents your daughter, and is lazy and wont do his share in the house? No? Then throw him out.

A if you do want a man like that, WHY do you want a man like that?! Why are your boundaries so poor? Throw him out and arrange counselling.

Disgusting. Why do you keep him on?

I mean this guy won’t even go to the trouble to brush his teeth for you...but there you are frying up the bacon for his big breakfast.
Why?

Get rid. There’s lazy.....then there’s ‘not brushing your teeth’ lazy. Gross.

Stop cooking him breakfast every morning for a start! When he asks where it is tell him it’s his turn and give him your order. He sounds like a complete waste of space.

You are lucky you don't have a child with this useless specimen of humanity so that when you show him the door you never have to see him ever again.

Thank you all, I've read everything and need to have a think. Was prepared to come back to this thread and be told it's completely normal and I was a cow for thinking it wasnt, so thank you. (And yes he takes his socks off at night and puts them back on...same if he has a shower... we dont usually live together, he lives with his parents usually.. lockdown has made him stay here)