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AIBU?

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To think how dare she! I haven’t done anything wrong have I?

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Deedee9 · 18/04/2020 08:49

So, a friend of mine took it upon herself to tell me off last night. Why? Because I ordered some birthday cards online for my family including my ds who is 16 in a few weeks and my mum who’s 60 a few days later. Now it’s rare I order anything online as usually I like to go into shops, but considering card shops are shut and Tesco and Asda in my area are running low on cards I thought I’d order some online.

She told me it’s people like me adding to the crisis ordering non essential stuff and I’m not thinking of the delivery people risking heir lives. To be honest at first it upset me as she’s supposed to be my friend but then I got really angry. When I thought about it I’ve come to realise just how bloody judgemental she is. It was my dd’s birthday the first week of lockdown and my friend messaged me whilst I was waiting in the queue at Asda. I had gone for some essential food items but also to get my dd some balloons and banners. I hadn’t gone solely for the balloons and banners etc yet my friend called me irresponsible. My Facebook news feed is full of people ordering bbq’s, swimming pools play equipment, clothes etc but I haven’t commented because one it’s not my place to tell people what to buy and two it’s none of my fooking business. AIBU?

OP posts:
JigsawsAreCool · 20/04/2020 09:52

It must be anxiety inducing for delivery staff when they knock a door and dont know if they will have time to step back before someone answers the door.

I dont think you've done anything wrong op but I'm just trying to understand her pov

MigginsMs · 20/04/2020 09:55

Tell her to fuck off and wind her neck in. If the businesses are lawfully and safely open then it’s fine to order and buy what they sell. I’ve ordered cards from Funky Pigeon for family birthdays in lockdown

aladyofinderterminateage · 20/04/2020 10:02

We have been ordering things that we need online.
We order the occasional take away too.
We open the door slowly and carefully, usually the delivery person has placed the item on the step and moved back 2m.
We say thank you and take the item.
I assumed we were helping to keep people in business.
Confused

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