To think my girlfriend is a idiot?

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We don't live together.
She has a daughter who is 16.
The two of them live together and I live with my daughter.
We haven't seen each other since the lockdown began.
Just text her she's off to her friends for a BBQ but thinks it's ok as it's in a garden.
10 other people (a few different houses )
I'm annoyed and can't be arsed to even reply.
Her dad has heart disease and her mum COPD
Aibu here to say she's a idiot ?

YANBU.

I would think much less of her.

Honestly? I’d report the bloody bbq to the police,

And I couldn’t be with the thick as mince idiot after this is over.

To seriously call your girlfriend an 'idiot'...YABVU. Very poor choice of word.

Of course she is being unreasonable doing what she is doing.

I'm really annoyed
The girl who is having the bbq has been self isolating so apparently my GF says it's ok.
I've just told her to crack on and don't bother texting later when she's drunk

Are people really doing this sort of shit?

Maybe idiot is a bit strong but I was lost for any other word.
Just totally stupidly tho isn't it.

Nah, I'd call her an idiot. . .

Is your GF also visiting her parents?

She is an idiot.

She’s been told not too.

It isn’t essential.

She is an idiot and behaving disgustingly. Why is she so special that she can ignore the Government rules?

Personally I’d dob her in. Then I’d dump her

(You mention their health, which wouldn’t be v relevant unless your GF lived with them or visited them, against guidelines).

Honestly I think I'd struggle to stay with her if it was me

Call the police ! Your girlfriend is a major problem in our battle against this disease. Oh and dump her.

Would also call her an idiot. A very selfish one at that.

YANBU - her behaviour is idiotic so she is an idiot

Idiot isnt too strong a word.
I can think of worse!

Idiot. A selfish one at that. As is everyone else at this BBQ.

She has been dropping food off but not going in there home just at front door (but they would only open it once she's in her car )

I think idiot is fairly generous in the circumstances. If it was me this would end the relationship, I couldn't be with someone so selfish and irresponsible.

Oh yeah and I would report to the police whilst I was at it.

I can't believe people are actually doing things like this?! Is this for real? Come on, you're just posting for attention, right? This cannot be real

I said to her you have a lovely garden,a fridge full of food.
Have that in the garden with (daughter )
Her friend has alcohol and other things (which is not for me but I try not to judge )
That's obviously making her want to go.
Her response was
"If we gonna die might as well die happy "

@Bdayupset I wish it wasn't real but it is.
Could post WhatsApp messages but I won't as you never know who's on here.