To think my girlfriend is a idiot?

[prattyproo]

We don't live together.
She has a daughter who is 16.
The two of them live together and I live with my daughter.
We haven't seen each other since the lockdown began.
Just text her she's off to her friends for a BBQ but thinks it's ok as it's in a garden.
10 other people (a few different houses )
I'm annoyed and can't be arsed to even reply.
Her dad has heart disease and her mum COPD
Aibu here to say she's a idiot ?

Your gf has shown what kind of person she really is - someone who puts their own pleasure ahead of other people's safety. No way could I stay in a relationship with someone like that.

Utter vermin like behaviour which will prolong things for everyone and end up killing more people

Your girlfriend is being extremely stupid. It’s actions like her’s and her friends’ that keep the death toll up. Maybe tell her what it’s like to be ventilated... seriously unpleasant... and give her a very wide berth.

And this is why we'll be in lockdown forever anon at this rate!

Thing is my girlfriend has still been going to Tesco's etc for food shop and her friend has too.
So I'm assuming they could have it and not realise
Maybe I'm wrong

It is I'm assuming yeah

Yep, she's an idiot and that's putting it mildly. I've just watched the police visit a BBQ in a neighbour's back garden. I was going to report them but my neighbour next door had already done it.

To seriously call your girlfriend an 'idiot'...YABVU. Very poor choice of word.
I quite agree @Butterfly84

I had something in mind which is more along the lines of "stupid-selfish-cow-who-is-going-to-be-the-end-of us-all"

"Idiot" does roll off the tongue though.

Yes, she is a moron. Dump her, she obviously has no brain cells or regard for anyone else.

@thedancingbear your comment made me literally lol!

Report the bbq to police. You can be anonymous.

I couldn’t be in a relationship with someone so hard of thinking. She’s so dim that she’s dangerous.

If you don’t live together, why don’t you just end the relationship?

To seriously call your girlfriend an 'idiot'...YABVU. Very poor choice of word.

Did you confuse Mumsnet with Netmums?

This is an idiotic thing to do, YANBU OP.

It's reasons like this I wish UK had done a proper lockdown

@prattyproo why on earth should I, and every other decent human being, have to suffer for her disgusting behaviour????

If she's been going to Tesco then she hasn't been self isolating. She may have been social distancing but she isn't if she's going to a bbq.

She is definitely an idiot and a few other words too.

I think this irresponsible aspect to your gf is going to keep tearing its head sadly. Long term it may create a wedge between you.

They should be reported. This sort of behaviour is costing lives.

Idiot is right, the government has been clear on what to and what not to do. People not following are selfish idiots putting themselves and their loved ones in jeopardy.

We're all going a little mad being inside all the time but for someone to plan a BBQ and people to agree to attend is just stupid no two ways about it.

Poor choice of words saying “if we’re going to die at least I’ll die happy”. Nothing could be further from the truth if she got the virus.

Shocked at the poster who thought the word “idiot” was too strong. If that doesn’t qualify as an idiot what does.

I’d dump her.

Selfish. Moron. I'd dump her.

Definitely report the bbq to the police. Please to save lives.

When you say "drink and other things" do you mean drugs?

But dying alone in a hospital isn't nice and leaving a dd alone isn't nice or watching her dd leave alone in the ambulance to die alone isn't hospital isn't nice. She is a fucking idiot

She's an idiot yes

"If we gonna die might as well die happy "

Did she mean to say, "might as well die alone, hooked up to a ventilator"? Doesn't sound the happiest way of dying to me.

YANBU.