To think my girlfriend is a idiot?

[prattyproo]

We don't live together.
She has a daughter who is 16.
The two of them live together and I live with my daughter.
We haven't seen each other since the lockdown began.
Just text her she's off to her friends for a BBQ but thinks it's ok as it's in a garden.
10 other people (a few different houses )
I'm annoyed and can't be arsed to even reply.
Her dad has heart disease and her mum COPD
Aibu here to say she's a idiot ?

If it looks like an idiot.

And acts like an idiot.

It's an idiot.

I think posters are misunderstanding the poster saying that the word 'idiot' was unreasonable- surely they meant that this word was too mild an insult for what the GF is doing

I don’t care about this idiots not caring about dying, I care about health workers who will be put at risk by taking care of them and all the people they infect.

She is an idiot no doubt, I hope you report the BBQ, it is irresponsible not to do so.

I think idiot is extremely mild.

You need to report this ASAP

Idiotic behaviour = idiot

Tell her to enjoy it and her friends company as one of them might die as a result

I couldn’t be in a relationship with someone who was so utterly selfish. Who’s going to look after her child if she dies?

If " other things" is a reference to drugs then what a lovely girlfriend you have.. taking her daughter with her to a BBQ and will be taking drugs. Classy woman! Report the BBQ then get rid OP. idiot is putting it lightly

Your girlfriend IS an idiot.

Sorry, but that would change things for me entirely.

She’s more than an idiot. She’s a selfish, ignorant cunt.
Report the BBQ. Leave her, she’s selfish and will always be that way.

Another vote for idiot. It’s tempting to say much worse though

If you don't report it you're complicit.

She's being very selfish and inconsiderate.

Calling her an idiot plus "don't bother texting later when she's drunk", you seem like a shitty partner

What a Fucking idiot she is 🤦🏻‍♀️

Calling her an idiot plus "don't bother texting later when she's drunk", you seem like a shitty partner

I'm what way? Not following the guidelines does make you an idiot.

Report and delete from contacts

Looks like you need a new girlfriend.. One with more than two brain cells

I wouldn't want a text from her later either.

She's idiotic (at best).

@Butterfly84 Fucking hell, really? OP is the bad guy? Sure.

@prattyproo to be honest at this point I’d just dump her. She’s being more than an idiot, she’s dangerous.

Report her and finish the relationship, she’s being reckless with other people’s lives.

She's not just an idiot, she's extremely selfish and self serving.

I would honestly report the bbq to the police.