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To think I couldn't hate my husband any more than I do right now

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Oliveorangutan · 29/02/2020 23:13

We went out for an evening, everything was fine. I stupidly made a factual comment about something that happened last year that he did that really hurt me.

He went mad. Threw his drink down and shouted at me to f off. He then disappeared for over half an hour, leaving me on my own in the dark in the middle of town. When he comes back to the car, he is furious with me, tells me he hates me, he doesn't love me and only is around for the dc.

I am in bits. Even if he apologises tomorrow, I can never unhear all those things.

OP posts:
Elieza · 04/03/2020 11:43

OP what’s making you stay with him, as the combined wisdom of the MN hive mind may be able to give some further suggestions.

You only have one life. Don’t waste it on this useless shit if a man who has no love for you. You deserve better. We all deserve love. What’s holding you back from leaving? Thoughts of:
Nobody will ever love you again?
I’m staying for the kids?
I have nowhere to go?
I don’t have enough money?
He may get violent if I try to leave him?
I would bring shame on my family?
I don’t want to be alone?
I don’t have the confidence?
I’m too old?
I’m scared?

All these reasons for staying with a guy who doesn’t love the person (in this case you) have been given a hundred times over on here.
And there are solutions for them all. You just have to take the first step and admit you are not happy and you have the chance to change that by leaving.

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