Is DS being a CF?

[MirandaGoshawk]

DS is 26 and lives at home. He works long hours, so I do his washing. His GF is also 26 and lives with her parents. She stays over with DS two or three nights a week. Her socks & undies have appeared in our washing basket a couple of times and I've done them without comment. Now a pair of her trousers have appeared. I mentioned them to DS and said I wasn't happy with extra work drying clothes in this weather. He said to shove them in with his and tumble dry (which I tend to avoid). But the label says no. Anyway today is blowy so I have washed them. AIBU to ask him to get her to take her washing home in future? What if I shrink something?

Tell him to do his own fucking washing, and hers! He's 26 for goodness sake, unless he's working 24 hours a day this is fucking ridiculous and you are enabling him to be a complete fucking loser. Who the fuck would still have their mum do their washing at 26?!

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Good grief no! It’s bad enough you’re still doing his washing, not taking in more. It’s not the amount, it’s the principle . They’re 26 for goodness sake!