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To ask for a handhold?

999 replies

GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:12

Hello all,

GoJetterBoy after 2 years of fighting has finally lost the energy to fight, I’m currently sat with him in hospital, having come in a few days earlier for pain management.

I really need a handhold right now...

OP posts:
blablablablablablabla · 26/02/2020 09:39

I am so sorry.

amijustparanoidorjuststoned · 26/02/2020 09:40

I'm so sorry OP. Sending you all the love x

Lara53 · 26/02/2020 09:42

Sending you a massive hug x

BrunetteBuns · 26/02/2020 09:44

I’m so sorry for you OP and your family. Sending love

Sleep well GoJetterBoy x

caperplips · 26/02/2020 09:59

Oh @GoJetterGirl there are no words, that is devastating and every parents worst fear. I feel heartbroken for you and your family and read your update in tears. Thinking of you all. x

jackstini · 26/02/2020 10:08

Thinking of you this morning @GoJetterGirl and hoping the session with the grief counselor can start to help

Both my DC loved the penguin book when they were younger. Wonderful to hear your stories of DS, keep posting if it helps. Will think of him when I have crispy bacon

I am a bit away from you but if I can do anything at all just let me know

Overandabove1 · 26/02/2020 10:14

So sorry for your loss. Rest in peace brave boy ❤️

makingmammaries · 26/02/2020 10:23

I am so sorry, OP. Sitting crying at work as I read this. Be proud of your boy.

BlessedBeTheFruitCake · 26/02/2020 10:33

Sleep tight, beautiful, brave GoJetterBoy. Star

TheatreTaxi · 26/02/2020 10:57

I"m so sorry for the loss of your boy, GoJetterGirl. No words are adequate.

I hope it's OK but I lit a candle for your DS in the beautiful space that is St. Paul's Cathedral this morning. My DS is a little older than GoJetterBoy and is one of the cathedral choristers. This morning the air around your DS's candle was filled with wonderful music as the choir sang.

HalfDutchGirl · 26/02/2020 11:16

Heartbreaking for you and your family, sending much love to you at this very sad time, you’re in my thoughts xx

ASimpleLampoon · 26/02/2020 11:40

I remember your previous threads.

I have thought about you a lot.

It's lovely to read all about your little boy and how he is, what he likes what he does. Please keep talking about him as much as you want so we can know all about him.

Sending hugs and kisses I am thinking of you and your family x

WingingItSince1973 · 26/02/2020 11:45

Oh am so truly sorry. Your DS sounds like a truly remarkable boy who brought so much joy to everyone. I have ordered the Penguin book in honour of your ds to share with my grandson who is 4 years old. No words can help you but we are all here for you. Lots of love to you all xxxx

SterlingViolet · 26/02/2020 11:47

Flowers Flowers Flowers

Annoyedxx123 · 26/02/2020 11:52
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Soapytoad · 26/02/2020 11:58

Sending you so much love. I can’t imagine how you must be feeling right now. You are clearly a very strong person ❤️

Toria70 · 26/02/2020 12:00

Take good care of each other right now. It's a long lonely dark path to walk down after the loss of a child. No parent should ever have to walk it. But there is light on the other end, a different light to what you're used to, but light nonetheless.

Flowers Flowers

WhatAMum01 · 26/02/2020 12:07

So awfully sorry for you.you sound like a wonderful mum and my heartbreaks reading about what a gorgeous human your little man was,I wish you comfort and much love.xxxxxxxxx

Syrinx89 · 26/02/2020 12:08

Sending so much love... I was reduced to tears most of this morning after reading your awful but beautiful words and found teaching the children hard because I kept thinking of your loss @gojettergirl ❤️

I've set up a thread about lighting a candle... I hope you don't mind. It would be lovely if we could all light up our rooms for him Star Flowers

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3831325-To-ask-for-a-handhold

Mamaoffruitloops · 26/02/2020 12:09

My heart hurts for you OP, rip little one xxxFlowers

Syrinx89 · 26/02/2020 12:09

Sorry, accidentally linked to the wrong thread. Here it is xx
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3833098-Candle-lighting-for-GoJetterBoy

Marshmallow91 · 26/02/2020 12:11
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thegcatsmother · 26/02/2020 12:12

Have followed your threads for a while (under a different name). I am so sorry for your loss; your ds loved and was loved, and will always be with you.

Howmanysleepsnow · 26/02/2020 12:15

I’m so, so sorry. I’m in floods of tears reading this. Like others, I’ll light a candle for your beautiful, strong brave boy and for you as you hold him close in your heart.

EerieSilence · 26/02/2020 12:17

Truly sorry for your loss. RIP, little GoJetterBoy.