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To ask for a handhold?

999 replies

GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:12

Hello all,

GoJetterBoy after 2 years of fighting has finally lost the energy to fight, I’m currently sat with him in hospital, having come in a few days earlier for pain management.

I really need a handhold right now...

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MrsSchadenfreude · 24/02/2020 06:14

I’m so sorry. Have a hug and a handhold from me. Xxx

THAT90sBITCH · 24/02/2020 06:15

Im here op!

Do you have some RL support?

Andahelterskelterroundmylittle · 24/02/2020 06:17

Holding hand tight. 💗💗

GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:18

Thank you, I have quite a lot of RL support, but it’s this time of day that I don’t have anyone to talk to, BFF left me at 2:30 and I must have been that tired I fell to sleep, but awake now.

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THAT90sBITCH · 24/02/2020 06:21

Glad you have rl support op and its good you got some sleep Smile

Are you managing to eat/drink?

GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:24

I managed food late last night, my appetite isn’t anywhere to be seen tbh, I’m not a big eater anyway, if I didn’t have to eat to fend of starvation I probably wouldn’t

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Scottishgirl85 · 24/02/2020 06:27

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WLmum · 24/02/2020 06:27

I'm so sorry to read this. I'll hold your hand. Want to talk about him? Or shall we fill the space with nonsense and chatter?
The kindness of mn strangers helped me a lot in the small hours when my dm was in her final days.

SebastienCrabSauce · 24/02/2020 06:30

I don’t know whether you’re taking about your partner or your son but I’m sending you a big hug and support from here Flowers
I’m sorry you’re going through this

2018SoFarSoGreat · 24/02/2020 06:30

Hand hold here OP. And a big strong back to lean on if you get too tired. What a hard time.

Were you in any way prepared for this?

minmooch · 24/02/2020 06:30

I don't know your story op but wishing you much love and strength.

Henrysmycat · 24/02/2020 06:31

Hello OP. Many hugs from me. Want to talk as well?

GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:33

My little DS, terminal concert,

I’d love to talk about him, he’s a very special little boy

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myrtleWilson · 24/02/2020 06:34

Oh GJG I remember reading a thread of yours about your PIL.

Am so sorry, holding tightly

GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:35

Cancer even,

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Willowashen · 24/02/2020 06:36

Im so sorry @GoJetterGirl. Sending you all my love at this difficult time.

GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:37

The inlaws not here, apparantly the sight of DS being so fragile is distressing to their eyes...

DS is the worlds biggest gojetter fan, is so smart and can tell me stuff I didn’t know, he’s so loving

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Bunnylove83 · 24/02/2020 06:37

Please do tell us about him. What did he enjoy? And what made him smile?

So sorry for your loss.

THAT90sBITCH · 24/02/2020 06:37

I would love to hear about your boy op!

2018SoFarSoGreat · 24/02/2020 06:37

Oh no. I remember your thread from last year when you were so tired. I'm so sorry you are here now.

Poor boy. Poor you. It must be so incredibly awful. Unimaginable.

Tell us about him.

THAT90sBITCH · 24/02/2020 06:38

Bless you op, i'm sorry your pil cant be more supportive. How old is ds?

Cottagepieandpeas · 24/02/2020 06:40

In my thoughts.
I'd love to hear about your lovely boy 💐

Gigglebert · 24/02/2020 06:40

Holding your hand very tight, so so sorry you and your boy are going through this xx

Bitofnamechanging · 24/02/2020 06:42

I remember you also. I'm so very sorry that you're here. I wish you and your son all the love in the world

GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:44

DS is 7,

A very popular little boy,
He has been visited by his teachers yesterday and everyone got to say their goodbyes,

We’re having lucid moments, fleeting, and he usually asks for something he really wants, the last time he called me mummy was when he wanted me when I went to the bathroom Saturday night, and he deteriorated early hours Sunday, I’d give anything to hear him call me one more time

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