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Awful situation - someone I manage going for the same promotion?

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icecreaminapot · 24/01/2020 20:07

I have applied for a job (not in my current place) that would represent a step-up for me, but would be a natural progression. I spoke to my boss first, who was supportive.

Today, someone I manage has told me they also applied. We have both been short-listed. The issue is this person is not qualified or experienced enough for the role. Yes, I know, they are entitled to apply for any job they want, but the only way they would meet the criteria is if they lied about what they have done in the current post. They are struggling in their current role, never mind trying to step up. I have had to support them massively and refer them to my boss to try and improve matters. They are in no way ready for the next step up, but to get short-listed they must have taken credit for things I or others in our team have actually done. No doubt about it.

My worry is that in doing this they have probably cast doubt on my application. I feel like we have both been shortlisted so the recruiters can work out who's lying! What do I do? If anyone ha experience of this would love to hear it, especially from recruiters.

I've been vague for obvious reasons, but ours is a niche industry so I know that this is a problem and our applications will have stood out like a sore thumb.

OP posts:
cologne4711 · 04/02/2020 11:35

You are assuming that they have used examples from their current role to meet the job specification. They may not have done, they may have used other roles, whether paid or not. As an example, I was a school governor for 8 years and have used examples from things I've done as a governor to meet competency based application criteria.

Even if she has used examples from her current role, she may have phrased it quite differently from you. For example you may have said "I led a team that x y z" and she may have said "I played a key role in team that did x y z". Not the same, and not contradicting you or casting doubt on you.

WellHolyGodMiley · 04/02/2020 16:55

Update us OP!

Theluggagerules · 04/03/2020 18:22

How did interview go OP?

BunnytheBee · 04/03/2020 18:30

I wish people would just take things at face value - it's a very specific role they're going for and they're not capable for it.

It is not for you to say whether she fits the role. It is for the new proposed employer to decide who to recruit.

People apply for jobs all the time where different applicants have different levels of experience. It wouldn’t bother you if you weren’t going for the same role.

Bemystarlord · 05/03/2020 18:47

How did it go?

ReeRi2020 · 08/03/2020 16:06

Did you ace it OP?

cologne4711 · 08/03/2020 16:11

Please come back and update us OP!

NoveltyFunsy · 08/03/2020 16:11

hope it went well OP

Hopel · 08/03/2020 16:44

You wouldn’t be able to provide a reference - it’s a conflict of interest?

SillyMoomin · 07/09/2020 21:29

Did you get it op?

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