Cousin didn’t ask me to be bridesmaid

[Cloudyyy]

My cousin is basically my best friend and I’ve just found out - from other friends- that she’s asked them to be bridesmaids at her wedding but not me. Obviously it is her choice but I’m very upset that this is how I find out how little I mean to her! I asked her about it and she says she wants my son to be her page boy instead. It feels as though she only wants him because it suits her photos and I don’t really fit the mold. I realise it sounds petty but AIBU to tell her to find another page boy?

Wow, all my bridesmaids were taller than me (I’m not short they just happen to be tall!) - will have to look back at my wedding photos to see if they look odd now. Literally never crossed my mind

@Sweettruelies I guess it would look a little odd to some people if they the bride were maybe 5.1 and the bridesmaids were all 5.6 and above but even then it should not be a big enough issue to say a very close friend or relative can't be a bridesmaid lol.