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Harry and Meghan resigning?

999 replies

TheMustressMhor · 08/01/2020 19:03

See link. News just announced.

www.telegraph.co.uk/royal-family/2020/01/08/prince-harry-meghan-step-back-senior-members-royal-family-couple/

It does sound like they might be escaping from the public scrutiny and online abuse.

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Tabbykitty · 08/01/2020 20:09

It was always obvious that Meghan married in to the Royal Family for celebrity, fame and fortune without understanding that the order of precedence within a hereditary monarchy can't be overturned by snide PR campaigns. She never had respect for the role.

What she shouldn't take the blame for is changing Harry, we've just seen who he really is now the veneer of respectability Charles, William & Kate gave him has been stripped away.

malylis · 08/01/2020 20:12

An awful lot of ill informed bitterness abounds here.

lilgreen · 08/01/2020 20:12

Good for them.

lilgreen · 08/01/2020 20:13

I don’t think she has changed Harry. She’s probably just given him the confidence to make a move. Also you mature when you become a partner/ husband and father. He’s now thinking of the life his child will have.

Nat6999 · 08/01/2020 20:15

Given that Prince Charles is planning on reducing the core of the royal family when he becomes king, have they jumped before they were pushed out? It looks like they will be living in America for at least part of their time. After the way the press have hounded MM & what happened to Princess Diana Harry is protecting his family, they can live a more "normal" life away from the UK, I don't blame them one bit. MM probably wants to spend time with her own mother, since she got engaged to Harry she hasn't really had any proper time to spend with her, i know everyone will be saying that she knew what she was signing up to when she married him but you can't help who you fall in love with.

Justneedatemporaryname · 08/01/2020 20:16

Good for them.
They'll have a much nicer life in the US away from all the haters over here. Who will the press write about now? 🤔

Amylox · 08/01/2020 20:17

insist if Meghan gave up being a royal they'd zip their mouths permanently will actually stand by their promises?

She's not giving up being a royal. They're giving up being 'senior royals' which is basically saying they don't want to be royals as a full time job and they don't want their roles to be defined by any other palace influence (including the Queen) and want to be free to cash in on their royal profiles. They're not giving up public funding or security, or their platforms and or patronages or their own pet projects. The statement also seems to hint they will be continuing to engage with the woke brand of politics they're both very keen on.

Basically before they would have been expected to do certain things as senior royals, trooping of the colour, Remembrance Day, Ascot, state occasions including banquets and receptions for foreign dignitaries plus overseas royal tours and a full diary of engagements.

Rather than stopping being royal what they seem to want to do is treat royalty like a tap they can turn on and off at will. So 6 months in America writing lifestyle blogs, pushing products and interviews with Oprah pontificating on woke causes , then back for a fortnight to stick on a tiara and some royal jewels and mug for a few photos next to HM so nobody forgets they're royals.

If they were genuinely giving up being royal - fine. But they're just giving up the bits they don't like and hanging on to the perks and privileges.

PianoTuner567 · 08/01/2020 20:17

The bitterness and vitriol on here against her is unbelievable

percheron67 · 08/01/2020 20:18

That appalling woman was always going to cause maximum trouble for the Monarchy. William was right in his reservations!! My sympathies lie with the Queen, Princes Charles and William. I hope they receive no more public monies.

cooldarkroom · 08/01/2020 20:19

"Public life will never allow them freedom to live without scrutiny",
They were both n the public eye. she shouldn't be surprised,. She wanted to be a Princess ! She thought it would be all sparkly, & its not.
If they want out, they should forfeit the salary, the dwellings, & go off & live their lives in the real world.
She will go back to acting, they will divorce

joyfullittlehippo · 08/01/2020 20:20

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malylis · 08/01/2020 20:20

Its laughable how ignorant and judgemental these threads are.

PianoTuner567 · 08/01/2020 20:20

Sorry to be a bore but I’d been watching Suits for years, long before anyone here had ever heard of her. Loads of cast interviews where she came across well plus in one interview they asked each cast member which of them was most like their character and they all said her (her character was a very positive one). This was before she’d ever met Harry so no agenda.

ConstanceSalinger · 08/01/2020 20:20

Wow, so much hate! Imagine if Meghan was on aibu? "I've met the love of my life. He works for his family firm and is tied up in their business financially, lots of emotional issues with "golden child" bro and the whole family has an opinion. I left my friends and a good job to live with them. We both want to go LC and move back to my friends in US, it's really the only way, aibu to tell the family we're off?"

malylis · 08/01/2020 20:21

" William was right in his reservations"

Oh aye? Right enough to not be shagging other women when his wife was preggers with no 3?

LaurieMarlow · 08/01/2020 20:21

The bitterness and vitriol on here against her is unbelievable

Yeah. Turns out lots of people are dicks.

TheMustressMhor · 08/01/2020 20:22

I have a feeling that Amylox is right in her assertions.

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Amatteroftime · 08/01/2020 20:22

Some serious MM haters on this thread.

think it’s very kind of The Queen to allow them to give the PR impression this was their decision. They’ve been booted, pure and simple.

What makes you think that? I've been saying they're going to start distancing themselves from royal duties for ages. Harry has never been a typical royal. Always spotted in places that he probably shouldn't have been. This behaviour (going against tradition) is not a new thing.

Also Archie is not a mythical creature, you did not need to put apostrophes either side of his name.

I think good for them for breaking away from it all to focus on their family unit.

CruCru · 08/01/2020 20:23

I agree with Nat6999. Prince Charles is going to streamline the Royal Family.

It’s quite possible that being Royal hasn’t been what MM expected. However, I also wonder whether her already difficult family were so much worse once she was dating Harry. At one point, pretty much every time she did anything, her sister commented on it in the press. Her family have made the Windsors look almost normal. Doing this cuts off all the attention that they get.

Freddiefox · 08/01/2020 20:24

That appalling woman was always going to cause maximum trouble for the Monarchy. William was right in his reservations!! My sympathies lie with the Queen, Princes Charles and William. I hope they receive no more public monies.*

So much hate. Poor Meghan she can’t do right for doing wrong

Sotiredofthislife · 08/01/2020 20:24

She thought it would be all sparkly

You know her personally, then? She has expressed her desire to be a princess to you and then her frustrations at the lack of glitter in her life?

PositiveVibez · 08/01/2020 20:25

Starksforthewin you sound bloody awful.

I am a Republican, but the way these people have been treated is absolutely vile.

The bitterness and vitriol is palpable.

I pity these people who have utter contempt and hatred for people they do not know personally and will never know personally. It's quite sad that they have so little in their lives that they have such strong and strange feelings about complete strangers.

Thesispieces · 08/01/2020 20:25

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malylis · 08/01/2020 20:26

Oohhh yes the gutter snipe racists are out.

BubblesBuddy · 08/01/2020 20:27

Except this family is the job. It’s also about duty and not taking without giving back. Hopefully no one will care about them as they want out. It’s highly unprofessional and smacks of me me me.

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