To get upset at husband for his past

[Pep89]

I'm almost certain I am being unreasonable here but, even knowing that, I still feel upset and I'm not even sure why.

My husband and I were chatting after bedroom time and I said that I'd maybe want to try something in the near future and, even though we've talked about this certain thing before, this time he told me that he had done it with a previous girlfriend. We've been together for 10 years and I feel almost betrayed even though this happened before he even knew me. I don't know if I'm jealous or upset that he's only just told me. I just know that I'm upset about it and I don't know why?

[Bluerussian]

user1471449295 Tue 17-Dec-19 00:12:54
YABU.
I can’t think why a man would tell you he anal’d another girlfriend.
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Because op said she would like to try it, so he said 'Done that, bin there, bought the T-shirt', or words to that effect. If he'd been keen on that sort of thing he would have suggested it himself. OP says they did try it once though and she didn't like.

[RainRainGoAwayComeAgain]

8 pages to find out your bf did anal with his ex gf... 10 years ago.

It's not all that anyway, I really wouldn't bother.

[Lifebee]

When your sphinx(Ter) met his obelisk you'd have spent days walking like an Egyptian.