Fiancé and I went to the pub for dinner last night. I was driving so he had a few beers before the meal at the bar. However he ended up absolutely pissed.
He tried to order another beer and they refused to serve him any more. At this point, he started shouting and swearing at the girl behind the bar, banging his fists on the bar asking ‘why won’t you fucking serve me?! It’s a fucking joke’. I have never seen him so angry. His whole body language changed, he looked aggressive- chest puffed out, shoulders back etc.
He ended up being told to leave by the manager who my fiancé accused of touching me inappropriately out of absolutely nowhere. He squared up to him, almost toe to toe, pointed a finger in this poor man’s face and shouted ‘did you fucking touch my wife?’. He then looked at me at yelled ‘did he fucking touch you?’ In front of the whole restaurant. I have never in my life been so mortified and disgusted by his behaviour.
On the way to the car, he was sick twice in the car park and sick all over himself and my car on the way home.
He doesn’t understand why I’m so angry at him. He left for work today feeling sorry for himself, trying to apologise. He said as he was stepping out the door ‘we could’ve stayed longer, I just needed to be sick’
All that from a 31 year old man.
AIBU?
AIBU to leave for one bad night
Sherrybabyy · 06/12/2019 16:52
Am I being unreasonable?
2089 votes. Final results.
POLL@Sherrybabyy I very nearly married a man who was a bit like this. Sunken costs fallacy as others have pointed out, plus his parents were so sweet and I didn't want to hurt them 
I didn't marry him and am thankful every day that I didn't stay in that relationship.
Run. Run for the hills and live a life you deserve rather than a half-life spent tiptoeing round this man.
Just seen your update. Well done, OP 
You've done a brave thing and you will thank yourself for it over and over again.
@Dillydallyontheway god, I’m so sorry you went through that. thank you for sharing your experience
My parents are incredibly supportive thankfully! They’re very disappointed that he behaved so badly and that he lost his temper so much and they think I’m doing the right thing calling off the wedding & relationship as a whole.
Tomorrow I’m going to have to buy a pregnancy test. I didn’t even realise my period was late but it’s been 50 days since the beginning of my last one. I’m often late but never this late. What with my current situation, I’m really worried. Fingers crossed it’s just the effect of the stress of everything that’s happened recently 
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