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Entitled little squit

193 replies

Coldemort · 25/11/2019 18:24

Ranty rant....

I have a colleague. Lets call him Roger. Roger is in his early 20's. Roger left school at 16 with few GCSE's (I know this because he often makes jokes about it) but works with us in a senior professional environment. The environment he works in consists either of graduates or people with 20+ years of experience and have 'risen through the ranks'. Roger's dad however is the MD. Roger lives at home still in what I can make out to be a 'wing' of the house (has his own bedroom, bathroom, snug area). He pays keep for this, admittedly I dont know how much, but sees this as employing his mother to be his servant. For example, his mother makes him a packed lunch every morning. If for any reason she can't do this he will buy a subway and present the receipt to her for a 'rebate'. That is Rogers circumstances.

Now Roger has some questionable views. A couple of months ago we got into a discussion on how homelessness has gone up recently and has become much more visible. Roger was of the opinion the every homeless person is in that situation because they deserve to be. That 'no-one doesn't have family they can stay with', and 'anyone can get a job'. I tried gently to argue this but was banging my head against a quite hostile brick wall so gave up.

Since then I've kept my silence. Quite literally. I've sat through 'people are too offended these days', 'Me too movement is just attention seeking' and various other delights.

Today we (like most offices in the country) are talking of the election. Now Roger doesn't like labour. Fair enough. Roger expands on this about people being entitled and wanting everything for nothing, that why should the rich pay for poor peoples 'lifestyle choices'. He goes further as he thinks tax should decrease with salary to 'incentivise people to get off their arses'. He then comes out with the gem that minimum wage increases will encourage people not to do well in their education and settle for dead end jobs. Just as a reminder this man left school with few qualifications and in any other company would have, well never been employed.

He does this with a straight face. I'm sitting there seething. I can't say anything, he's the bosses beloved only son.

Arrogant, privileged, little prick. Gah…. I've wanted to say that all day.

OP posts:
B0bbin · 04/12/2019 16:05

'Roger' is a privileged prick. I have a boss's daughter at my work who arrives and leaves whenever she feels like it and is also a prick. Hope you've got some like- minded colleagues to moan about him with. X

1forAll74 · 04/12/2019 16:14

He is,as you say he is, an annoying,entitled little squirt.I have met these types of people before, and just ignore them as much as possible.
These types, with there inflated opinions on all and sundry, never consider the realities of life, they just like to hear their own voices.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 04/12/2019 16:18

Guinness is a lesbian drink? Ohhh wouldn’t it be lovely if he decided to share that gem in some Irish pubs!

@TheHodgeoftheHedge - I have been saying for ages that we need a MN Hit Squad - travelling round the country handing out much-needed bollockings.

BBInSleepsCounting · 04/12/2019 17:35

Marry him, OP. You too could fly around in a helicopter, having a free lunch of a life and DON'T FORGET drinking Guinness and Ale - that way you wouldn't have to actually have s-e-x with him.

KnitFastDieWarm · 04/12/2019 19:40

Guinness is a lesbian drink? Ohhh wouldn’t it be lovely if he decided to share that gem in some Irish pubs!

Yes I’d love to witness young Roger sharing that piece of wisdom in the more traditional pubs of, say, Govan or Tallaght Grin

KnitFastDieWarm · 04/12/2019 19:41

Also, am bisexual woman who mostly drinks whiskey or dry white wine. Am I doing it wrong? Please ask Roger to enlighten me as to the correct beverages for my sexual orientation!

KnitFastDieWarm · 04/12/2019 19:45

I had a Roger once. Wise words included:
‘Well, some women are just asking to be raped’ (after a serious assault near our workplace)
‘Irish and Scottish Gaelic are the exact same language.’ (To two Scots and an Irish Man. Nope, roger was right, never mind that he’d never set foot in either nation and only spoke English)
And my personal favourite, ‘when a woman puts a tampon in, she has an orgasm’
(A) God help anyone unfortunate enough to have sex with him and b) surely if that was the case we’d all be filled with joy at the prospect of that time of the month, not necking painkillers and complaining?)

PhilSwagielka · 04/12/2019 21:34

He's a Ben Shapiro fan? Gross.

OnceUponAMidnightBeery · 04/12/2019 21:49

@MarianaMoatedGrange

True, no straight male could possibly drink that much Guinness. And as PP said, he definitely likes women... Oh well guess I've got myself a wife now, thanks Roger Grin

Just as well i guess, since I like an occasional ale too...

Craftycorvid · 04/12/2019 21:55

So, the MN massive has your back for a contract killing, OP, and patios from Lands End to John O’ Groats are being lovingly tended in anticipation of receiving Roger’s dismembered and uniquely entitled carcass.

He certainly sounds as though he’d try the patience of an army of saints; that wit, sarcasm or challenge would be lost on him.

And yet.... where did Roger get this hugely inflated self concept? My guess is poor old Roger is parroting someone else’s views (daddy’s) in a vain attempt to impress (daddy). My guess is daddy has treated mummy like a doormat and has not exactly been a loving papa to Roger. I’m seeing quite a sad childhood actually, and Roger as a hugely insecure young man under all that blather. Mind you, I don’t have to work with Roger. My contribution to the MN massive Project Roger is, staging an intervention and luring him into therapy.

Craftycorvid · 04/12/2019 21:56

Oh and I am eyeing my burly bearded DH thoughtfully now I realise he’s a lesbian...,,

katewhinesalot · 04/12/2019 22:41

Well he's certainly spouting a load of old shit so squit is an appropriate word.

Jente · 04/12/2019 22:43

Cheer up. He'll be PM in ten years time.

Stayawayfromitsmouth · 05/12/2019 07:37

Depressingly this is the privileged life of most of our politians.

Tomselleckhaskindeyes · 05/12/2019 07:40

Make him a nice coffee!!

acatcalledjohn · 05/12/2019 08:00

With laxatives.

Nowstrong · 05/12/2019 08:14

Sounds like my "D" sis and "D" B in L....

At least I don't work with them.

StealthPolarBear · 05/12/2019 08:26

"ravenmum

Write it all down in detail, and when he becomes Prime Minister you can publish your memoirs and make a fortune."

Don't be stupid. Someone so arrogant, incompetent and out of touch could never become prime minister surely?

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