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Entitled little squit

193 replies

Coldemort · 25/11/2019 18:24

Ranty rant....

I have a colleague. Lets call him Roger. Roger is in his early 20's. Roger left school at 16 with few GCSE's (I know this because he often makes jokes about it) but works with us in a senior professional environment. The environment he works in consists either of graduates or people with 20+ years of experience and have 'risen through the ranks'. Roger's dad however is the MD. Roger lives at home still in what I can make out to be a 'wing' of the house (has his own bedroom, bathroom, snug area). He pays keep for this, admittedly I dont know how much, but sees this as employing his mother to be his servant. For example, his mother makes him a packed lunch every morning. If for any reason she can't do this he will buy a subway and present the receipt to her for a 'rebate'. That is Rogers circumstances.

Now Roger has some questionable views. A couple of months ago we got into a discussion on how homelessness has gone up recently and has become much more visible. Roger was of the opinion the every homeless person is in that situation because they deserve to be. That 'no-one doesn't have family they can stay with', and 'anyone can get a job'. I tried gently to argue this but was banging my head against a quite hostile brick wall so gave up.

Since then I've kept my silence. Quite literally. I've sat through 'people are too offended these days', 'Me too movement is just attention seeking' and various other delights.

Today we (like most offices in the country) are talking of the election. Now Roger doesn't like labour. Fair enough. Roger expands on this about people being entitled and wanting everything for nothing, that why should the rich pay for poor peoples 'lifestyle choices'. He goes further as he thinks tax should decrease with salary to 'incentivise people to get off their arses'. He then comes out with the gem that minimum wage increases will encourage people not to do well in their education and settle for dead end jobs. Just as a reminder this man left school with few qualifications and in any other company would have, well never been employed.

He does this with a straight face. I'm sitting there seething. I can't say anything, he's the bosses beloved only son.

Arrogant, privileged, little prick. Gah…. I've wanted to say that all day.

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Coldemort · 25/11/2019 18:47

I don't know his dad very well, at least not outside work. But lets say I wouldn't be surprised if he smacked me on the arse one day walking out of his office....

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aufaitaccompli · 25/11/2019 18:48

Squit is another word for shit where I'm from OP.
I'd say you picked the perfect word.

The punchbag at circuits takes quite the pummeling from me due to people like Roger....

AngelOfTheLaird · 25/11/2019 18:49

My family have always been bewilderingly late Victorian about insisting on leaving (and giving) money to male offspring, and providing them with jobs and property, but doing little for female offspring because they're supposed to marry men who have had similar legs-up and thus be 'taken care of'.

It all goes goes tits up in the end.

Roussette · 25/11/2019 18:49

I call people 'squits !

Roger sounds awful. Watched Horrible Bosses on Netflix last night, your post reminded me of Colin Farrell who played the vile son.

I know a Roger too. He's same age as my DD, nearly 30 (family friends' son). He's not had a job yet, never had one since leaving Uni. He wants to be an entrepreneur and says he will never ever work for anyone. He is working on a business venture, it's been six years and a total failure. His nutty parents bought him a £275,000 flat in a lovely road in a city. He will never use the National Health service and only will go private.

He thinks women are good for washing up and sex.

Entitled squit!!

SomeoneInTheLaaaaaounge · 25/11/2019 18:52

I feel for you, am fuming just reading it.

SunsetYorks · 25/11/2019 18:52

I know a female Rodger. Very childishly her nickname was Freeloader and that was all our passwords!!

Drabarni · 25/11/2019 18:53

Just keep repeating to yourself.

You are a tosser who still needs his mummy and daddy.
You'll eventually be a sad lonely old man.

Gingerkittykat · 25/11/2019 18:55

Just bide your time and karma will do its thing...

Will it though?

There are some fuckers who always land on their feet, and it sounds like he has daddy's wealth behind him. He already has a job he doesn't deserve and an easy life at home. It sounds like he is one of the people who will happily coast through life.

onthecoins · 25/11/2019 18:57

Spit in his coffee.

And sign up his email to a load of spam and shady dildo mailing lists.

Ravenesque · 25/11/2019 19:00

I'd have to get another job and on the day I was leaving I'd tell him what a nasty, vile little cunt he is.

Bettyhatesavocados · 25/11/2019 19:02

Write an anonymous note saying, Where would you be without mummy and daddy, Roger? Maybe homeless or on the dole with your pathetic little clutch of GCSEs? and leave where he'll see it.

GuyFawkesDay · 25/11/2019 19:02

Maybe a subscription to some odd porn mag, delivered to work?!!

I used to work with a Roger.

Company went tits up, along with his glittering "career" when his father went to prison as part of said company collapse.

So karma does exist.

Sallycinammonbangsthedruminthe · 25/11/2019 19:03

Suggest to Roger the todgers dad how staff away days help morale and how it would do the company good to get involved with a charitable concern,His PR brain might go into overdrive at the idea ,Then take roger the todger on the first one to a homeless shelter for veterans ...make him humble.He will soon shut up when he actually experiences some of the horrors these people have endured.

ravenmum · 25/11/2019 19:04

Write it all down in detail, and when he becomes Prime Minister you can publish your memoirs and make a fortune.

Coffeethrowtrampbitch · 25/11/2019 19:05

That sounds awful. I had a lovely experience with a misogynistic son in the family business who used to moan about not being allowed to go to uni. His parents had given him a £40k job for the last 15 years instead!

I think every time Roger makes a remark you hate, you should offer him a tea and then lick the spoon, or sneeze in it. Look around, get a new job, leave with reference, then leave a review on glassdoor.co.uk for the company and send Rog's dad a link.

messolini9 · 25/11/2019 19:05

Loving your moniker @Coldemort.

Look, Roger has left you with no choice but to take out a contract on him. If everyone gave a quid, I'm sure you'd have enough money to hire The Jackal in no time. With maybe some left over for a restorative post-execution gin. Gin

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 25/11/2019 19:06

Is he any good at the work? Hard to see how he could be doing as well as people with relevant qualifications and a lot more experience. How is he not damaging daddy's business in that case?

Good luck with your job hunt!

5zeds · 25/11/2019 19:06

Just laugh at him.

Coldemort · 25/11/2019 19:07

The most shocking thing (you'll have to bare with me as a glass of wine down) is that he genuinely has no comprehension of how privileged he is. When its mentioned (in hushed whispers), someone will always come up with 'well he's young'. He's in his fecking 20's.

He hasn't yet turned up in a helicopter :) but does drive a 30k plus car. A junior colleague who's just turned 30 doesn't drive. Roger asked him why not. Colleague explained he left home at 18 and prioritised buying a house instead. Rogers response was 'I'd get that if you were a bird, but really? Is it not embarrassing?'

gahhhhhhhhhh

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mencken · 25/11/2019 19:08

brought up that way. Of course the offspring of normal people can turn out to be total arses, but if mumsy-wumsy and dadsy-wadsy are enabling it all it won't change.

just ignore. People who have sex with the management or are the offspring of the management always get it easy.

Actionhasmagic · 25/11/2019 19:10

Wow... What a dick

MidnightCircus · 25/11/2019 19:11

He sounds awful! I work with a 20 year old who has very similar opinions. It's taken sheer force of will not to punch him at times, opinionated little git. I'm just hoping he grows out of them. In your case, it's even worse, I think murder may be the only solution! Or strong drink at least. Eurgh

Coldemort · 25/11/2019 19:12

And lots of these replies are making me laugh. Yet also very sad that Rogers seem to be everywhere...

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PlumsGalore · 25/11/2019 19:12

I voted YABU but only because i learned the hard way that nepotism is rife, you cant do anything about it and it will eat away at you.

He was born lucky, like a royal. Will probably never experience genuine love, or appreciation of anything and will likely die a sad lonely existence.

Deep breaths and Karma.

wildcherries · 25/11/2019 19:12

I'll buy you the shovel and stand guard. He sounds like an entitled, clueless twat, worse with every update. People like him make me want to scream. No concept of reality.