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SmileEachDay · 29/10/2019 16:25

meaww.com/missing-teen-adult-video-pornhub-modelhub-snapchat-periscope

A missing 15 year old girl was spotted in videos hosted by Pornhub. Those of you who are “ok” with porn - are you “ok” with this?

The sentence the man involved in making the videos is for another thread, but is shocking.

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over50andfab · 05/11/2019 22:18

I wonder why that was deleted? All she was saying is what the porn apologists have been saying all thread. Porn is cool and women like it too and get with the programme you pearl clutching prudes!

Have we all been saying that? I certainly haven’t and nor have pretty well all the most prolific posters on here who watch porn.

I totally respect your right not to watch porn.

Whilst the article I posted the link to might be depressing, in that it acknowledges that slavery exists and is a problem that needs addressing which no one is denying, this is a new strategy being implemented by the NCA, and actually ties in with what frosted mentioned above.

PencilsInSpace · 05/11/2019 22:26

SarahNade's post victim blamed the 15 y/o in the OP.

user1479305498 · 05/11/2019 22:27

Pearl clutching prude here!! Used to be very liberal and all that , but I actually had the cheek to expect that my H would exercise far more moderation in use than was the actual reality. Suddenly realised I didn’t feel that liberal, sneaking around the minute I was out and hiding it 5 or6 times a week made me feel like shit. Can I just say for many women it’s not all about the ‘ethical’ , although that’s a factor, the other thing is for many of us , especially those over 40 or so , it is a bloody turn off against your partner on a mental level. (I appreciate it’s not all of us, but it’s a fair old chunk)

PencilsInSpace · 05/11/2019 22:30

Yes pornusers make shit partners IME.

PencilsInSpace · 05/11/2019 22:57

Over50 the 'new strategy' is to do fuck all.

The National Crime Agency acknowledge that these sites are being used to sell enslaved women and girls and they're now going to stop trying to shut it down because that strategy proved to be just too fucking hard.

The 'new strategy' is to 'advise' and 'persuade' but there are no sanctions.

'Dear sex selling site, we are emailing you to advise on how to age verify your customers and here are some things to look out for in case you are worried you might be selling enslaved women and girls. Best wishes, NCA'

'Dear NCA, thanks for the info. Best wishes, sex selling site'

'Dear sex selling site, further to our previous email we would like to remind you that selling enslaved women and girls is not nice so please could you not do it? Kind regards, NCA'

'Dear NCA, yup, got it, thanks for the reminder. Regards, sex selling site'

That's it. That's the 'strategy'. Only now, the sex selling site know that NCA are no longer even attempting to keep their eye on the ball.

PencilsInSpace · 05/11/2019 22:58

Are you still with him user147?

over50andfab · 06/11/2019 00:16

Pencil, I agree, it does seem that they are taking the soft approach. However as the article says, when the USA has taken down some of these websites, it had simply displaced the problem to other parts of the internet.

As far as advise and persuade goes, I’m sure they will have their own way of implementing this rather than the way you describe.

Reading this other article, the NCA is not totally ineffective,
www.nationalcrimeagency.gov.uk/news/337-arrested-after-takedown-of-horrific-dark-web-child-abuse-site-welcome-to-video

AnalFloss · 06/11/2019 13:30

@user1479305498
If he's not masturbating to porn, I imagine it would be something you'd find even more threatening. Previous partners, younger colleagues or you from a decade or 2 ago.

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