To never want to share food with DH again?

[NewNameOnSunday]

DH is always buying food for us to share (eg big packets of crisps, tubs of ice cream) but then has a go at me when I take my half saying that I have taken more than half.

Sometimes I weigh it out and he still asks "Are you sure that's only half?" repeatedly and incredulously.

He's just done it again today and I'm fucking sick to death of it. We only live 10 minutes from the shop so it's easy to buy more of anything he wants. He just is always acting like I'm a greedy bitch and it makes me feel upset and insecure.

[SunshineCake]

There is no "just pissy" in this scenario.

I feel sorry for the OP. Up to where I have read to she hasn't been back for a while so I hope she is safe but there is a lot for her to take in. How about every one stops saying she has to leave and start posting practical help as even if she doesn't want to leave, or can't yet see she should, it will someone.

[FilledSoda]

You need to get angry , hopefully reading these posts will give you a better perspective on how much of a dick he really is.

[Jux]

Empty another cupboard and make it your treat cupboard. He's not allowed to touch anything in it without permission from you.

[IWouldBeSuperb]

I'd be rethinking him being SAHD very very rapidly. Decide it's not working and for fuck's sake get him OUT of the role of primary carer - because right now, if you did decide to walk (and I think you should, asap) - as it stands, he'd keep your child.

This. This. This.

Sorry you're going through this OP

[Milanimilani]

I just wanted to say I’m thinking of you OP. If you decide to leave, things do get better, even if its hard at first.

[Wonkybanana]

Just to say OP, I can understand you not being back. But if you're still reading I hope it's helpful. The responses here went much further than maybe you were expecting. I think we (because I was one of them) were right to point out how vulnerable you are, that it's not as straightforward as saying 'leave', and you may need that information later, but you probably weren't thinking in those terms when you posted. I hope you're OK.

[marmitedreams]

@boabab Thanks for letting us know that you are better than OP because you wouldn’t ever eat a lot.

Your comment was snide, unhelpful and indicates that you have issues with food.