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To find baby animals cuter than actual babies?

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Helmlover1 · 18/10/2019 23:14

I mean, give me a cute puppy or kitten any day. Whenever anyone shows me photos of their babies/toddlers I secretly think to myself ‘my cat is so much cuter’. Anyone else feel the same?! This is a light-hearted thread by the way, no offence to anyone with young children!

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CravingCheese · 20/10/2019 12:41

Certainly, I've never met or heard of an animal that was malicious

I have.
One of them was my grandmother's cock. He had a pretty wonderful and cushy life but still attacked everything and everyone.

The other one had been abused. But evil is still the only way I could describe his behaviour.
Not unlike certain humans, I guess.
and seeing as humans are still animals...
Idk why some people believe that animals don't have the agency to be (what we call) evil.

Wheat2Harvest · 20/10/2019 12:48

I doubt that anyone would think that baby pandas or kangaroos, which look like skinned foetuses, are cute. And as I don't like dogs at all my reaction on seeing puppies isn't one of how cute they are but how much unpicked-up mess they will produce.

Some human babies are cute, some not so much. But to compare them with animals seems a bit off to me.

EnthusiasmIsDisturbed · 20/10/2019 12:52

Why do all threads have to be taken so seriously

Surely it’s obvious we are talking about cuteness not actually how we feel emotionally and all a bit tongue in cheek

Wonders off to look at pictures of baby hedgehogs and rabbits my personal favourites

ThatMuppetShow · 20/10/2019 12:54

YANBU of course

my babies were the cutest and most adorable thing on earth.
other babies? Meh, not so much. I can't understand people who need to coo over any random baby.

EnthusiasmIsDisturbed · 20/10/2019 12:56

Such cuteness aww Blush

To find baby animals cuter than actual babies?
To find baby animals cuter than actual babies?
StCharlotte · 20/10/2019 12:59

Not remotely Wafflecopter! Grin

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 20/10/2019 12:59

My new ones very cute

To find baby animals cuter than actual babies?
CravingCheese · 20/10/2019 13:04

@EnthusiasmIsDisturbed

Aww, the rabbit is adorable. (the hedhehog isn't imo. But we're obviously all individuals... With somewhat different ideas about cuteness.)

Kallyderon · 20/10/2019 13:04

@Agathatheaardvark yy to trauma. Or perhaps persistent negative experiences eg bullying. Anything really that could cause a person to have the impulse to eschew the complex, unpredictable and potentially emotionally painful world of human interaction. Which then becomes a self perpetuating circle.

CigarsofthePharoahs · 20/10/2019 13:04

Baby budgies are pretty ugly. Imagine a sperm coloured pink and the size of a finger nail. Yeek!
I didn't find babies cute till I had my own. Now I think their wobbly heads and puzzled faces are absolutely adorable.
Kittens though. Ain't nothing cuter than a little kitten.

DaveMyHat · 20/10/2019 13:05

I think kittens and puppies are cuter. Also, maybe this is weird, but when my DD was a baby I had almost some kind of aversion to other babies. I tried to not show it and to say all the right things if I saw another baby, but if another mum asked me to hold their baby or something I just felt like it was wrong. This isn't my baby. This is wrong. Like a siren in my head... She's 5 now and that feeling has gone but it was very strong when she was a baby. I think other babies just smelled all wrong or something. Confused

CravingCheese · 20/10/2019 13:05

And also, omg that kitty. Such an adorable fluff ball. And the pattern. Like a reverse mustache. 😻

TrainspottingWelsh · 20/10/2019 13:17

I've heard people say it too, but never when there hasn't been a valid reason from the animals pov. Plus animals don't have the same type of empathy and understanding as humans do, so it doesn't have the same malicious intent.

Eg the cat that tortures a small animal. Naturally, that's how they teach their young to hunt, it's for a survival purpose. And as many domestic cats don't get further along the maturity route than that they continue to do it as adults. Different to a cat hunting for food that wants to expend the least energy and take the least risk to procure food. Neither is malicious or aware they are inflicting torture. And entirely different to eg the likes of Ian Huntley.

I suppose the comparison is a toddler deliberately hurting another child, physically or by snatching and breaking their favourite toy in a tantrum, there's no intent or understanding as there is with an adult human.

Plus I think the human race as a whole is pretty shit at communicating beyond the verbal. So eg the dog that bites a child out of the blue has usually been communicating that likelihood for ages but nobody read the body language.

Barring psychopaths, I don't think anyone that says they hate babies and children mean it in the true sense. More they hate the behaviour, work, noise etc. Eg if a friend brings a baby or toddler round, I find them cute, enjoy interacting etc. But would privately tell dp that I'd hate to have more and be back at that stage 24/7. Whereas if they bring a puppy dp will be listing all the reasons another wouldn't be practical before they've left. If I didn't already have dc and therefore didn't entirely understand that stinking nappies and constant supervision come with a billion positives when it's your own, then I could imagine saying I hated them if my experience was only badly parented dc, even though I'd be using the word incorrectly. Eg as I hate shopping or soggy veg.

I suppose it's babies rather than children because they are more noticeable. So eg the parent that barges their tractor size pram and sense of entitlement into a theatre and inflicts their screaming baby on every other patron for the majority of the performance. What people mean is they hate shit parenting, but they tend to say babies instead.

MitziK · 20/10/2019 14:07

Animals are easier, because they don't lie.

I understand their body language, the signs that they are uncomfortable, irritated, relaxed, playful, contented or scared.

Animals just are. They aren't malicious. They are them and you are you and that's just how it is.

I wasn't around babies or other children as a kid to keep me off Social Service's radar. But I was around animals all the time. It wasn't until I had my DD1 that I'd ever held a baby - I'd only seen a newborn child once aged 11 for ten minutes, which consisted of a small pink nose sticking out from a bundle of blankets and a knitted hat whilst I was stood six foot away.

So excuse me if I say I prefer baby animals to baby humans or humans as a whole. I understand their needs better, I feel safer with them and feel more of an emotional response to a defenceless animal than I do to a perfectly well protected/guarded infant who has their mother with it.

LisaSimpsonsbff · 20/10/2019 14:31

Also, maybe this is weird, but when my DD was a baby I had almost some kind of aversion to other babies. I tried to not show it and to say all the right things if I saw another baby, but if another mum asked me to hold their baby or something I just felt like it was wrong. This isn't my baby. This is wrong. Like a siren in my head...

I wouldn't say it's an aversion exactly but I used to find other people's babies and toddlers cute before I had DS, but now I don't Blush. They're all just rubbish versions of DS to me... I wouldn't admit that to anyone in real life!

Celebelly · 20/10/2019 14:45

@LisaSimpsonsbff Bahaha I feel exactly like this about DD. I see other babies and a little part of me is like 'What a shame, their baby is nowhere near as great as DD' Blush Obviously I would never say it to someone but I do feel inwardly smug at how I have the best baby in the world GrinGrinGrin

PralineCookie · 20/10/2019 15:20

Idk why some people believe that animals don't have the agency to be (what we call) evil.

That's not a rooster being evil. That's a rooster being a rooster. They are designed to be very protective of hens. They are generally aggressive by nature for that reason though some breeds and individuals are more so than others.

CravingCheese · 20/10/2019 15:27

That's not a rooster being evil. That's a rooster being a rooster. They are designed to be very protective of hens. They are generally aggressive by nature for that reason though some breeds and individuals are more so than others

There were various roosters throughout the years. Only one was like this...

Anyhow. We might be derailing the conversation.

It's imo perfectly fine to find baby animals cuter than human babies.
I do however agree with pps, I also get a bit of a chill when I hear / see other people talking / writing about how they absolutely hate children and babies. Especially when that kind of talk is coupled with expressions of love for (non human) animals... 🤷🏻‍♀️

PralineCookie · 20/10/2019 15:28

Like I said some are more aggressive than others but it's still a rooster being a rooster. It's not capable of evil as humans are. Chimps perhaps, but the majority of animals are not.

PralineCookie · 20/10/2019 15:30

IME it's usually the people who are supposed to like children, the parents. who harm them, not people who don't care for kids.

CravingCheese · 20/10/2019 15:37

He also hurt the hens. And not in an amount that might be attributed to fairly regular mating behaviour.

You may say that he didn't have the capacity for evil. But I maintain that there was something seriously wrong with him.
something that couldn't simply be cured by a nice life. Or the vet.🤷🏻‍♀️

PralineCookie · 20/10/2019 15:38

There may have been something wrong with him,a neurological/psychological condition but evil? No.

formerbabe · 20/10/2019 15:39

I can understand not liking adult humans because they can show unpleasant personality traits..but to actually dislike babies is really fucking weird.

To all the people weirdos who prefer puppies and kittens...if you saw a puppy drowning and a random baby (ie not yours) and you could only save one...which would you save,?

CravingCheese · 20/10/2019 15:41

There may have been something wrong with him,a neurological/psychological condition but evil? No

One might say the same about certain humans that are we tend to call evil?

PralineCookie · 20/10/2019 15:41

To all the people weirdos who prefer puppies and kittens...if you saw a puppy drowning and a random baby (ie not yours) and you could only save one...which would you save,?

I don't know. How cute is the baby?

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