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Should I have shared my garlic bread?

345 replies

RobynsMama · 16/10/2019 18:52

Went to Nando’s with some pals, we all like doing this because we all order what we want separately and there’s no faffing with splitting the bill.

Our orders came, and I ordered garlic bread as my side. I love garlic bread, and I love the bread they put their garlic butter on and it’s my fave thing.

Friends meal arrives, she’s ordered chips and coleslaw as her side, looks forlornly over at my perfect garlic bread and says “I wish I’d ordered the garlic bread now”. Someone else pipes up with “oh you’ll know for next time.” And we all
Laughed.

So I just eat my meal and enjoy my (two slices of) garlic bread. She’s got an absolute face on at the end of the meal and I asked her what was up and she said to me “you could’ve offered me one of your slices of garlic bread instead of gutsing them both”.

I wish I was more mature and I wish that comment hadn’t hurt me but I’m in the middle of a weight loss journey (still treating myself to sinful garlic bread sometimes) I have to say it really shocked me and I’ve been thinking about it ever since (i know iabu because it’s just a comment but still). She made me feel like a right gutsy git.

If it was something like an Indian meal I’d have had no problem sharing bits of everything because that’s the kind of meal it is but with something like Nando’s surely you just pick what you want? Was I right to eat both my pieces of garlic bread or should I have offered to share?

OP posts:
rainingallday · 16/10/2019 21:08

I still cannot fathom why she didn't order some herself. It would have taken 5 minutes. It's 2 bits of garlic bread to be cooked, not a 32 pound fucking turkey! Hmm

rainingallday · 16/10/2019 21:08

@GabsAlot

How come I never knew they did garlic bread!?

Eh? Confused

Have you just arrived from the 1300's, in a time machine?

Garlic bread has been around since the 15th century.

user1471453601 · 16/10/2019 21:11

You are totally unreasonable because now I want, really really want garlic bread. Like, really want garlic bread. Bitch

Drogosnextwife · 16/10/2019 21:11

Share no food, feel no shame.
Tell her next time not to be so tight and just order her own garlic bread.

TheMobileSiteMadeMeSignup · 16/10/2019 21:12

Before I even read anything I decided YANBU. Even less so after reading that it's your side portion and not a designated sharing plate.

Your friend needs to get a grip.

theretheirtheyrenotno · 16/10/2019 21:13

YANBU to not share

YABU to describe the virtues of Nando's garlic bread, now l have to order some to try!

theretheirtheyrenotno · 16/10/2019 21:14

I still cannot fathom why she didn't order some herself. It would have taken 5 minutes. It's 2 bits of garlic bread to be cooked, not a 32 pound fucking turkey!

GrinGrinGrinGrinGrin

IHaveBrilloHair · 16/10/2019 21:14

@coolwalking
I've spent this entire thread thinking the sameGrin

Frenchfemme · 16/10/2019 21:15

SORRY , pressed the wrong button! Definitely NOT unreasonable.

tinkering · 16/10/2019 21:15

If it was me I would have offered BUT I’ve had it drilled into me that if I don’t offer people part of a side before beginning to eat it’s really rude. Only sides, though, not main meals. Blame my mum for that! Grin OP really YANBU it’s your side and you’re under no obligation to give it to her. She showed her true colours by saying you were being gutsy — that’s bloody horrible and I sense jealousy in that especially considering your weight loss.

Fookadook · 16/10/2019 21:15

You could point out the irony of her eating her meal and two sides and then wanting your garlic bread and then calling you gutsing. Pot kettle black?

TessTackle · 16/10/2019 21:19

Yabvu.

I’m now absolutely bastard starving and all I want is garlic bread & peri chips Grin

ChiefClerkDrumknott · 16/10/2019 21:20

You need to channel Nessa and Smithy. “This is my food. I ordered it, I’m eating it”

m.youtube.com/watch?v=Xaq4nN2QwEI

IHaveBrilloHair · 16/10/2019 21:22

I've just put garlic bread on my shopping order for tomorrow, and I'm not sharing itGrin

rainingallday · 16/10/2019 21:23

@TessTackle If you GET some garlic bread, you'd better bloody share it with us all on this thread, you gutsy shit. Angry 🥖

Grin
rainingallday · 16/10/2019 21:24

@IHaveBrilloHair

Not sharing?!! Another gutsy shit! Shame on you! Angry

Grin
Slappadabass · 16/10/2019 21:26

She's a cheeky fucker, if she wanted garlic bread she could have gone back to the till and ordered some.
I wouldn't have shared either!

rainingallday · 16/10/2019 21:26

@ChiefClerkDrumknott

Thanks for sharing the G & S clip. Grin

Brilliant!

Parttimewasteoftime · 16/10/2019 21:27

OK I have never had nandos but share two slices of garlic bread when you all ordered separately YANBU.
She was being rude could have just said to waiting staff oh could I order a extra garlic bread looks nice etc sorry OP crap to made to feel bad.

Mumtotwo82 · 16/10/2019 21:29

It was your side order what an entitled cow she is. Then to be unkind and make out you are greedy. It's a serving for one if she wanted some that badly she could of ordered some. Please don't feel bad about yourself because of her.

Ihatesundays · 16/10/2019 21:30

2 slices!! If it was a while baguette maybe, 2 slices and she can go fuck herself whilst eating all her chips

Interestedwoman · 16/10/2019 21:30

YANBU. The others didn't expect you to share, one said she'll know for next time. Not your fault if she didn't think what she ordered was as good.

IHaveBrilloHair · 16/10/2019 21:32

I'm having the whole four slices to myself, with the four pack of dips I have also ordered.
Big gutsy fucker and proudGrin

Raspberrytruffle · 16/10/2019 21:32

I only share with my offspring, as Joey says I dont share food! I'd have said well you didn't share your dish either

TessTackle · 16/10/2019 21:36

@rainingallday I bloody wish I was getting some but I am in fact a gutsy shit so I can’t!

I had tomato soup Sad