AIBU to be unsure about dating a 37 y.o. virgin man

[Puzzledbyart]

I just started seeing someone with serious intentions for the first time in 5 years (single mother, no support, so no major opportunity to develop romantic relationships). Feeling a little bit out of my depth and awkward. It is an ex-colleague, we met at someone's leaving drinks and just hit it off.
We had a couple of dates so far, and had a very nice quick lunch today too (while my children were attending their sunday classes). I really like the guy, he seems genuine, funny and sweet, only painfully shy. Today he told me that he is also a virgin - and he is 37 (I am a few years younger).
AIBU to be a bit alarmed by this? I cannot put my finger on what exactly is bothering me, but the more I think about it, the more unsure I feel. Or am I overthinking this?

What a dickhead. And oh yuck at the words he used.

Stan i hardly think sex with ones hand is whats commonly known as sex life...which is not a human right much as incels would love it to be article 69 perhaps...

You've had a lucky escape op just don't do what I did and give him another chance. I had only slept with one person who was my oldest father and my ex said something similar about me he called me a "cum bucket". He then pleaded forgiveness and because I was in a bad place anyway have him a second chance. Worse mistake of my life I wouldn't change my 2 other children for the world but what he's done to my mental health and I said earlier he has made me never want to have sex again. He was a nasty abusive bastard who believed all women are slags and I owed him sex. He even on our fist time made me feel like I looked disgusting. Looking back I have no idea why I stayed with him and why I felt like I owed him sex. He seemed such a nice guy before it all as we had known each other for years.

OP, it just shows your gut instinct was right all along, but you know this. When l first read your thread, l opted to keep schtum as l realky was not sure what to think.

I hope you meet someone who you can enjoy time and bodies with soon. I always think it’s best in a new friendship to enjoy the sex together but without the overnight stay.

Always trust your gut! And this is why. He's probably a future serial killer with an attitude like that.

He’s a creep. Lucky escape OP

Silly little man. Well done OP, maximum dignity from you. It must be a bit annoying if you feel you have wasted time on him - you haven't, that's life, and you made your exit at precisely the right moment.

Awful people do take time to show their true colours, otherwise they would function even less than they do. Phew to no awful sex, what a massive relief for you.

@Mummybares,
Stan i hardly think sex with ones hand is whats commonly known as sex life...which is not a human right much as incels would love it to be hmm article 69 perhaps...

If this was true, then the people who make and sell vibrators and other sex toys would have gone bust ages ago. Sadly, the only sex life many people have is with themselves. I have a male married friend who told me, about eleven years ago, that he had not had sex for the last ten years THEN, and they are still married. A cleaning lady we once had told me that her only sex life was with her "toys" and that "it wasn't the same". I could give further examples. not everybody "gets it" or "gets it regular". Sad but true.

What's in your heeeeeead,
In your heeeeeead,
Zombie.... zombie...

For me it would be a red flag for him having issues, also the sex probably wouldn't be good

zombie
wtaf Is MNHQ reviving under socks because of slow thread/anything other than Corona pls

Just started reading this thread not realising it was a zombie and my first thought was outrage- you met him for lunch!!! God how life has changed

Allthesethingsihavenotdone and Rosegoldeagle

Regardless of Zombie.. I need to know what happened !!!

Did she or didn’t she ?!??

Man ended up being a twunt on p9 flippy No shit Sherlock. Just like the twat posing under a female name who revived this to flog a dodgy dating app.

ZOMBIEZOMBIEZOMBIEZOMBIEZOMBIEZOMBIEZOMBIEZOMBIE

@RoseGoldEagle me to! Sunday school? Arranging a night away!!?? Ah 2019. The world makes sense again.