Me and OH have been together for 7 years now, we have an 8 week old DD. Things have always been rocky and he has flipped between wanting to be a single guy playing the field and then missing me.
Anyway, throughout my pregnancy and the first month of DDs life we have been amazing, he’s been so supportive and helpful.
However this last month he has been distant and on his phone a lot, the other day I saw a message from a woman, we will call her Anne. Anne had said “I live in XXX so not far” however OH said it was someone from his work asking about a work do for someone birthday and seeing if she could catch a ride with him.
Anyway, he told me yesterday that he’s meeting up with 2 of his friends in the town centre to go to the pub for the day, til about 6pm. I said okay. the friends we will call Alex and Pete.
Important point about Alex and Pete is that they live round the corner from us.
So this morning he asks me how long I think it’ll take for him to walk to the bus station from our house, I ask why.
He says that’s where he’s meeting his friends.
I asked why because they live 5 minutes away so you may as well walk down with them or taxi share etc
He laughs nervously and says “well they’re already in town anyway “
The bus station is right down the bottom of the town centre at the bottom of the hill, the pubs etc are all uphill, so are we.
So I question why he is going to waste time walking all the way down to the bus station to walk back up to town centre, when his friends are already in the town centre.
He laughs again and goes “ I don’t know, that’s just what Alex said”
He went out at 1pm smelling of aftershave and dressed really nice (smart casual)
He got back at 11pm (not 6pm as he said)
The place where this Anne said she lived is on a major bus route, therefore unless she drove, she would have to get the bus as it’d take hours to walk.
AIBU being suspicious and thinking he met Anne today and not his friends? Or am I being paranoid