Video call to a man I've been dating last night and I mentioned having a cold sore on my lip that was slightly annoying. He reacted in judgement, made me feel frankly disgusting and said he thought I would have told him I get cold sores. He's concerned etc. Do I get them elsewhere.
I've had two in my entire life, cue me telling him to do some research because it's very common and it's not an STD.
Aibu to be hurt by his ignorant reaction or is he BU? He's made me feel quite dirty to be honest.
Are you supposed to disclose to a new partner that you've ever had a cold sore?
I'm a bit WTF to be honest. It has soured the mood and I'm due to see him this evening.