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To feel uncomfortable telling people I'm pregnant because....

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Beingrllystupid · 13/08/2019 19:36

It feels like announcing to the entire world that we've had sex?
I'm being utterly ridiculous I know but I don't want to tell my parents because of this, obviously they probably know I'm not a virgin but still

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MangoMummy19 · 16/08/2019 12:29

All the people commenting on the 3 month relationship as if the longer you are with someone, the less likely they are to be an asshole, forget that you can't control how a person behaves regardless of how long you've known them.

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Lifecraft · 16/08/2019 13:12

All the people commenting on the 3 month relationship as if the longer you are with someone, the less likely they are to be an asshole, forget that you can't control how a person behaves regardless of how long you've known them.

But you can make a far more accurate prediction. Someone you've known for 10 years who has never been an asshole is less likely to be an asshole than someone who you've know for 5 minutes who has never been an asshole. He could be having a good 5 minutes!!!

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Phoebesgift · 21/09/2019 19:18

How stupid. We're all here because other people had sex.

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Cosytoes111 · 21/09/2019 21:59

I felt the same

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DontTouchTheMoustache · 22/09/2019 11:44

3 months isnt a long time but thats not to say it will or wont work out. I feel pregnant after a year with my ex, it didnt work out. The chap I'm seeing was with his ex with for over 10 years before they had their daughter, it didn't work out. 🤷‍♀️
Two very different relationships but we both ended up as single parents so in the end it doesnt matter.

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Totalwasteofpaper · 22/09/2019 11:49

I'm 22 so quite young. I haven't been with BF very long only about 3 months

People “knowing you’ve had sex” is the LEAST of your problems.

I would think long and hard about whether or not you want to be attached (via a child) to a guy you barely know for 20 or so years.
I would also think long and hard about whether you want to continue with the pregnancy.
What is your plan in terms of financial provision for yourself and potentially a baby???

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