To think Sil's present makes her a cheeky f**cker!

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Sil got DH a family photo package present for his birthday. Nice present because we have a young dc. But it's in the city thats near to her and mil and an hour and a half away from us. She also has said to arrange it with her when we go because she wants to be in the photos. AIBU to think that's quite cheeky of her?

Can't believe Venture are still going. We got given a voucher over 15 years ago and while the pictures were stunning (and we still have them) it was £800 for 4 pictures in an arty frame. Definitely a hard sell and high pressure tactics.

In contrast, local photographer, all digital prints from a shoot, about £400, and you can print them yourself if you want to.

Thr main CFery sign was that she wouldn't give the gift to OP's DH, so the only way to use it was if she agreed on the day and could come too.

The other circumstances are irrelevant. Even if it was a genuine studio with prints prepaid , she still would've been keeping the gift for ransom and conditional on her cooperation. That's not a gift.

Not at all. YABU.