Just found nudes on husband's phone

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He had 3 WhatsApp groups with him and a woman. One had nudes of her vagina close up. And the other nudes if her in different poses including in his london flat. And with him. There was no conversation and the third was them making arrangements to meet again. I then found a photo of a massive vibrator he took in his flat kitchen.. obviously to send to her. I don't know what to do..I haven't confronted him yet. Does this sound like an escort or something? There was one picture of them wake boarding outside his flat. No mention on any of his friends chat about another woman.

I didn't know you could go wake boarding in London

So... Did they leave?

Also, are you still "together"?😮

I called her phone and she answered..I just asked for a generic person. She sounds eastern European..I deleted all the photos off his phone..he has been on it since but obviously not mentioned it to me.

Naked pics not nudes. Have you been to his London flat? Not sure if it's an escort or a girlfriend but he's definitely dipping his wick. Please get tested and see a SHL. Sorry he's doing this to you.

What an arse! You're going to have to ask him these questions OP. Sorry.

Refering to last thread. Just to make it clear

Sounds more like an affair, if they are doing activities together and taking photos together.

Sorry op. Personally I would screen shot it all. Forward it to myself I'm his what's app.

Wether you delete the converstation where you forward it, is up to you. Depends if you need time to make sure you have lots of financial paper work so he doesnt screq you in the divorce.

If you have all that paperwork, get copies. Dont delete where you have forwarded to yourself and let him find out that way.

Sounds more like an affair to me I’m afraid OP. I doubt an escort would be that unprofessional, it’s kind of shag, pay, leave isn’t it? Not doing other activities 😳

Why did you delete the pictures?

Why did you delete them? I’d of taken pictures of the screen on my phone for evidence.
I’m really sorry it’s so shit!

Knee jerk reaction. Do people really send open legged shots on WhatsApp? Full nudes with face on WhatsApp? Is that usual?

Is this the guy who preferred to spend time with his colleagues in his London flat, rather that try and spend quality time with you?

Why did you delete the photos?

Not a usual thing to do in my experience!
I wouldn't have deleted though as I would want evidence to confront him with.

Just done an AS OP.

He is a cunt. Does it matter what he is up to? Or rather does it matter if it's an affair or escort? You dont want to be with him, he treats you badly.

Split up and get away from him.

Obviously some people do send them on what's app. As you have seen.

Naked pics not nudes.

Seriously?

There was one picture of them wake boarding outside his flat.

Wuh? In London?

Also, why have you deleted the pics?

The photos will be in his photo album in his phone no doubt. Find them and send them to yourself. Escort, ONS, affair - whatever, he’s a cheating arsehole.

Not really relevant if she is OW or an escort. He is cheating. Full stop.

Are you going to bury your head or dump the fucker?

If the latter, you need a solicitor and to sort finances.

Does your husband also check your phone or do you merely check his?

I think she might not be a prostitute but might be a girlfriend. Either way it is cheating and you deserve better. Don't think about justifying it just leave

‘Usual’ is subjective. Does it matter if it’s an affair or a prostitute? Both are as shit as the other and both surely signal the end of your marriage.

I wouldn't have deleted them, I'd have taken screenshots. He's going to deny it and now you have no proof.

Does your husband also check your phone or do you merely check his?

Why is that relevant? She obviously had good reason to check.

Does it make it any better if it's a prostitute rather than an affair? Whatever he's doing he's cheating.

Leave him and get yourself checked out.