Just found nudes on husband's phone

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He had 3 WhatsApp groups with him and a woman. One had nudes of her vagina close up. And the other nudes if her in different poses including in his london flat. And with him. There was no conversation and the third was them making arrangements to meet again. I then found a photo of a massive vibrator he took in his flat kitchen.. obviously to send to her. I don't know what to do..I haven't confronted him yet. Does this sound like an escort or something? There was one picture of them wake boarding outside his flat. No mention on any of his friends chat about another woman.

If your DH is running businesses worth that much you need to get yourself a shit hot lawyer OP and fast.

Love Island not true. You can have the properties in the companies name and rent them from the company. I know someone who does this with their properties.

Seeing a solicitor is a very very good idea! Make that your first step to really being happy and living your best life.

Don't let him keep dragging you down. You deserve better.

Yes see that solicitor ASAP. He sounds a complete and utter dead loss.

OP it doesn't matter who's name the house is in if you are married. It's a joint marital asset and thus will likely be split between you on divorce.

It really does matter if it's not in his names.

Please don't tell me your the lady who went down to visit husband in London and he had his friends over the entire time?
If so, then this relationship is completely over. You need to start divorce proceedings and you definitely need to keep everything as proof! I do feel for you but even now there doesn't seem to be any anger coming from you or saying it's over etc.

Lol at lady

what a horrible thing to find. Hope you’re ok.

It might be my hangover, but cmon op, you can't be serious, who goes wake boarding with a prostitute. That's not a service they provide.

If this is real. Then he's having an affair.

bluntness I used to work as an escort and once got paid £750 for a 3 hour game of Scrabble. It’s not out of the realms of possibility but it’s unlikely. What is incredibly unlikely would be an escort messaging photos or in any way interacting with a client when she wasn’t being paid for it.

I totally believe that @DoesThisLookRight 😂

My (now ex) husband told me of a time his mates in the army paid for an escort to come and be The Banker for Monopoly.

What are you thinking of as alternatives OP? Staying with him? Surely not.

What is the relevance of comments such as “I once got paid £750 to play Scrabble”.

Who bloody cares?

OP this is beyond ridiculous. Take him to the cleaners for all you can.

Doesn’t matter if it’s a sex worker or not, his behaviour points to marriage over!

Stay in the house, retrain, look for jobs, transfer some money into an account that isn’t joint with him.
Don’t contact him, speak to a solicitor.

You may have some hard times coming especially if you still love him. But you can survive without him, you will eventually be ok on your own!
Don’t be a doormat. You’re worth more

OP can you withdraw all money in your joint account now and open a new one?

Do people really send open legged shots on WhatsApp? Full nudes with face on WhatsApp? Is that usual?

Does it matter whether it’s ‘usual’ or not, or whether other people do it? Your husband is participating in it, that’s the only relevant point here.

I just googled and don't see how anyone can do wake boarding outside a flat.

I’ve googled too and I’m as baffled as you

OP please can you explain the wake boarding?

I understand that you have more pressing matters but my mind won’t rest until it finds the answer.

Funghi Don’t be unkind. The OP has just found out her husband is cheating.

seven777 it was in response to the comment by bluntness, the one directly above my comment. I wasn’t asking you to care, hun.

OP please can you explain the wake boarding?
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I understand that you have more pressing matters but my mind won’t rest until it finds the answer.*

Mine too

I'd be grateful if you'd just pop on a one line explanation

Cheers

She's not an escort OP, I doubt they send naked pictures and they definitely are unlikely to spend time wakeboarding with clients. I too am curious about that btw

Also did you resolve anything after your last thread? That was never updated

Wake boarding can be done in London. Presumably OP’s husband has his flat in the Royal Docks.

www.wakeupdocklands.com