DH should APOLOGISE to neighbours

[TheBadNeighbour]

Had a small bbq last night and invited neighbour round who came with her two kids (aged 11 and 9). DH has had a lot to drink. I had also been drinking but was not drunk.
For context, I have aspergers and tend to repeat phrases I’ve heard. DH hates it and always picks me up on it but I don’t always realise I’m doing it.
Neighbour commented on the chicken and said it was nice, I told her the recipe and used a word that upset DH and so he flung his head back, screamed out the word and then hurled his can of beer into the air (showering neighbour with beer) before running around the garden repeating it over and over. Neighbour was gobsmacked and the eldest boy said “is he drunk??”. I was so embarrassed. Neighbour knows I have aspergers so doesn’t pick me up on words I use etc so she had no idea why he’d acted like that. She left shortly afterwards making an awkward joke about needing to get changed. I’m supposed to be meeting her for a run today and I’ve heard nothing from her and dare not contact her. DH won’t apologise as he says “we were all drunk” but we wasn’t! Just him!

He should absolutely apologise to her AND you. What an absolute twat.

He absolutely should apologise, the fact he won’t means he is a knob .

This sounds bizarre. Your DH should definitely apologise and if it were me in your shoes, I would be thinking about whether I want to be with such a disrespectful twat whilst he was at it.

How embarrassing for you all. Your DH sounds like a dick to be honest.

Not just for yesterday but for ‘picking you up on it’ anyway. That’s just not nice!

That's bizarre behaviour... dare I ask what word he didn't like?!?

Very, very, VERY far from normal behaviour, drunk or not. He should be mortified.

Yes he should apologise for his ott and unnecessary behaviour. What on earth was the word, does he have other issues or is just an insensitive drunken twat.

He sounds batshit and unhinged tbh. Your poor neighbour.

What was the word??

Oh my dear god.

What on earth?

What word was it?

If it was "moist" he might have a point... 😂

I think the real reason he won’t apologise is because he’s embarrassed and doesn’t want to face her. She’s one of my only friends.

The word was Lucy Bee instead of coconut oil. I watch a lot of recipe videos where the chef calls it that and I tend to call it that too as a result. I don’t mean to and neighbour knew what I meant

OMG He sounds like a bully....

For context what was the word that inset him so much? And why would it upset him do you think?

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Wtf?!

His behaviour was beyond drunkenness. He sounds completely unhinged.

Is he often like this?

Gosh, he behaved like an embarrassing fool. Yes, he should apologise both to you and to the neighbour.

So he ran around the garden shouting Lucy B over and over again? It actually sounds like he's had some sort of breakdown! What utterly bizarre behaviour.

Of course he should apologise... Throwing beer on someone, even accidentally while drunk isn't ok!

How is Lucy Bee another word for coconut oil!??

Your DH should apologise to her, you and the children. Ridiculous behaviour for an adult!

The word was Lucy Bee instead of coconut oil. what? is this an autocorrect

Message neighbour and go for your run, don't let his behaviour isolate you from friends

Your husband sounds like a bully. Why does he have such a problem with you repeating phrases or new words?
As for his behaviour with the neighbour, he should absolutely apologise, what an immature cock.

Henny it's a brand

Op, you Dh sounds horrid icky mean

Oh it's a brand! So it's like saying "Use some Lucy Bee in the pan" sort of like we say "Some Helman's" when we mean Mayo?