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AIBU?

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Aibu to not give this child a lift?

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ByeByeBike · 19/07/2019 09:40

My DC do a sporting activity in the next town over on a Sunday morning. One of my ds' classmates wanted to go along too but his mum doesn't drive. So for the past 6 months we've been ferrying him to and from the sports club.

This Sunday is the last week of it before the summer break and they have their big club presentation/awards ceremony which all the kids really look forward to.

However, this week we're driving there and then heading straight off from there on our holiday. I explained to the DC's mum that we wouldn't be able to give a lift this week as we're not driving back to hometown after the awards.

Apparently her ds is heartbroken he can't come to the final day and will miss the awards ceremony. She is begging us to please give him a lift there and then either drop him back home (would be a 40 minute detour for us) or drop him at his grans house (would add 20 minutes onto our journey).

I know that if we go for his grans house then it's only a tiny delay towards our holiday but I just really had it set in my mind that we would just head straight from the activity to our holiday, we have quite a long car journey to get there and could do without our DC being cooped up in the car for any extra time.

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Taichipandas · 24/07/2019 00:27

It's not the means of communication that is at issue here obviously. It's how the recipient of the information reacts to it that is the hassley bit, as amply demonstrated by this thread!

MrsGeneGenie · 09/08/2019 08:36

So it’s an important night for the child, a presentation night ! You’d think the mother would be going also in which case getting a taxi would be fine and most definitely not making this your problem!! She is selfish and extremely ungrateful for all you’ve done 🤾🏻‍♂️🏆🥇

MrsGeneGenie · 09/08/2019 08:55

Oh and it’s NOT just 20 mins , it’s 20 mins to grans then 20 mins back either to collect family or get back on track!

MrsGeneGenie · 09/08/2019 09:02

I’m glad the child got a lift but it shows how little the mother cared in that she still didn’t go xx

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