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To believe this is racist?

136 replies

Bottletopsx · 11/07/2019 10:21

Bought a teapot on ebay, arrived with an old break very obvious so asked to return. After several abusive emails this was the last one I received after seller had to refund me.

You know what?
Keep the junk as you describe it. I don’t want it back. In my views it’s been contaminated with Englishness. I’m only selling things because I’m leaving this hate filled country, anyway.
My experience with you was another interesting example why this stupid country should not be part of a civilised community of countries. Never do business with the English. Too right, I’m afraid to say.
Enjoy a nice English tea time on me.
I can’t wait to go back to my home country.
#GammonComeInAllShapesAndSizes

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recrudescence · 11/07/2019 10:24

I’m more inclined to laugh at this than be offended.

popehilarious · 11/07/2019 10:26

English isn't a race. Hth

bellabasset · 11/07/2019 10:26

Rant from a lunatic

Bottletopsx · 11/07/2019 10:27

Just pisses me off. If I sent this with English replaced with some other country I would be hauled into court!

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Adoptthisdogornot · 11/07/2019 10:27

No not racist. The rant of someone who is angry and hurt for whatever reason. Ignore it and move on with your life.

ChardonnaysPrettySister · 11/07/2019 10:29

Unhinged- yes

Racist - no

MonkeyToesOfDoom · 11/07/2019 10:29

Send them a photo with the teapot and a scone and a big old fuck you smile on your face.

BouquetNotBucket · 11/07/2019 10:29

If I sent this with English replaced with some other country I would be hauled into court!

Really? So if you replace it with Scottish, Welsh, French etc you’d get hauled into court?
Don’t be stupid.

RosaWaiting · 11/07/2019 10:31

Xenophobic for sure.

Adoptthisdogornot · 11/07/2019 10:31

As gently as possible, it's pretty insulting to people who experience actual real racial hatred and discrimination to compare this with what they go through (by calling it racist). Your reasoning could easily start to sound privileged and ignorant. The person who emailed you may well have experienced some horrible bigotry themselves and is lashing out at you as a result, honestly, as rude as they were, let it go.

KurriKurri · 11/07/2019 10:32

It's not racist just Bonkers. You wouldn't be hauled into court if you replaced English with another country. Have you heard some of the stuff Boris Johnson says about the French ? And he still seems to be walking free.

RosaWaiting · 11/07/2019 10:32

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I’ve experienced plenty of racism but I don’t think it’s insulting to call this racist.

MonstranceClock · 11/07/2019 10:32

Can't judge without knowing what your emails were, they couldv'e been equally hateful.
Also, just sounds like someone at the end of their tether. Being a foreigner in this country, I completely understand.

NCforthis2019 · 11/07/2019 10:32

That’s not racist 🤦🏻‍♀️

Bottletopsx · 11/07/2019 10:33

I am Welsh and suffer stereotypical abuse all the time, so its not ok

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SylviaAndSidney · 11/07/2019 10:33

Rude and laughable, not racist though.

MindyStClair · 11/07/2019 10:34

Not racist, just anti-English. Or, more likely, just an angry person who has tried to think of something that will hurt you.

It’s a hilariously weak effort though, so I wouldn’t give it a thought! Just block them, report them to eBay if you like and move on.

BouquetNotBucket · 11/07/2019 10:35

I am Welsh and suffer stereotypical abuse all the time, so its not ok

And do those people who abuse you get hauled into court?

fridacakehole · 11/07/2019 10:37

Would be interesting to understand a little more of the backstory too. It sounds as if there were several emails exchanged before it reached this point. Could any of your responses be antagonistic - perhaps the straw breaking the camel's back?

werideatdawn · 11/07/2019 10:37

🙄 it's not racist and you're making yourself look stupid insisting it is. It's a rant from a complete lunatic. Ignore it and move on with your life.

Lifecraft · 11/07/2019 10:40

How is it racist? It's abusive to the English, be they black, white, Asian, Chinese, Muslim, Jewish, Christian, Atheist, gay, straight or trans.

In fact, it's a fine example of equality in abuse. They are slagging off all of us who are English.

Adoptthisdogornot · 11/07/2019 10:40

If you're Welsh don't you just reply "I'm not English either you muppet" and leave it at that then?! Don't really understand why you're upset tbh

TheTitOfTheIceberg · 11/07/2019 10:44

It's not racist, but it is anti English, possibly even anti British if the person has done that common thing of conflating England with Britain, given you say you are Welsh. It sounds as though they themselves may have been on the receiving end of some xenophobia during their time here, which doesn't excuse their (somewhat OTT) rant but may go some way to explaining it.

PawPawNoodle · 11/07/2019 10:45

I am Welsh and suffer stereotypical abuse all the time, so its not ok

As yes, the well-known marginalised race of people - the Welsh. Constantly being abused and ridiculed!

Out of interest what do you consider to be abuse as a Welsh woman? The only stereotype I know of is Welsh men from the countryside being sheep-shaggers (which I don't consider to be abusive!)

JoxerGoesToStuttgart · 11/07/2019 10:48

I really want to see the rest of the conversation Grin

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