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Neighbor does not greet or talk to me - WWYD?

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Flyingfish2019 · 19/05/2019 07:37

I live in a rural neighborhood. Most people are quite friendly.

One of our neighbors is a man in his forties. Like us he likes to ride and like us he has dogs. I often meet him while riding or while walking the dogs, our dogs like his but he seems to have a deep dislike of them. I have no idea why.

I always greet and say something like “nice weather today, isn’t it?“ him but he never gives an answer. In fact he acts as if he didn’t even notice me.

Actually he talked to me only once and it was to tell me that one of our sons needed to wear his cap. It was winter... and yes, he was right, but our son didn’t like wearing his cap and had taken it off without me noticing...

I never discussed him with the other neighbors. I do not want to be a gossip.

I wonder if I should ask him why he doesn’t talk to me. I mean I do not want to be his friend and actually even avoid some places because I know he likes to walk his dogs there. I just think it would be polite if he said something like “Yes, very nice weather but I think it might rain tomorrow“ when we meet.

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greeneyedlulu · 03/06/2019 20:18

I try 3 times as I think that's fair (as you never know what's happening in someone else's world) but if on the 3rd time someone still acts like this then they no longer exist to me and that's fine by me.

1967buglet · 18/07/2023 11:30

Sometime people just don’t want to chat. In our case, our neighbours have been appalling towards us, and I really never want to speak to them again, wave at them, nothing. Don’t care if it is rude either.

GasPanic · 18/07/2023 11:48

Sometimes you just have to be thankful for small mercies that you don't have a neighbour who impacts on your life - makes a massive amount of noise etc.

I would smile and say hello, but no more than that. I wouldn't let their behaviour dictate mine.

Some people just aren't chatty and to be fair they don't owe you banal conversation, even if it might make you feel better.

GetYourHandsOffMyCake · 18/07/2023 11:49

He sounds an unsociable, miserable and RUDE twat. Don't waste any more time talking to him. We had a neighbour like that.

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