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Aibu to feel the absolute RAGE with this Tinder date?

405 replies

Pulipatchouli · 16/05/2019 22:50

I met a guy for a date and really liked him.
We fell out. Because I left a card through his letterbox which he said endangered his vulnerable clients. Obviously i found this offensive and utterly ridiculous. I'm sure his postman violates his mailbox often!
He keeps messaging me to say 'thanks for the lovely book you sent me but I don't want to go out with you'
And other patronising shit .
I am full of RAGE.

Because he acts like I am sending him presents to win him back when he is obviously a vain plonker!!
And breathe

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namechangedasscared · 19/05/2019 21:46

OMG! Page 14 and still clueless as to what the hell OP means!

I’m guessing she’s never coming back now.....

Nickpan · 19/05/2019 21:56

Did the card say "I will destroy all of your vulnerable clients, and send you a book"?

ThatCurlyGirl · 19/05/2019 22:16

I hope the card was the full lyrics of the song the other thread poster can't remember.

Because then I can sleep easy for two reasons

WHAT WAS THE CARD
WHAT WAS THE SONG

gobbynorthernbird · 19/05/2019 22:33

Was it this card?

Aibu to feel the absolute RAGE with this Tinder date?
DoctorDread · 20/05/2019 00:03

gobby Grin

ThatCurlyGirl · 20/05/2019 06:43

@gobbynorthernbird

Hahahahahahahahaha

Dillydallyer · 20/05/2019 08:19

I’ve just sat ignoring my kids and read all 14 pages of this and I am still none the wiser Confused

Ferfeckssake · 20/05/2019 09:47

I think she should send him ANOTHER card! This one...

Aibu to feel the absolute RAGE with this Tinder date?
smilingontheinside · 20/05/2019 10:56

My interpretation of vulnerable clients is my young children and wife Hmm

thetis · 20/05/2019 11:07

As someone married to an actual dinosaur (not saying which breed as that would be outing) I'm disappointed to see people bringing up the Asda/T-rex thread again. This sort of lazy stereotyping is retrograde and depressing. Please think first. Thanks

pineapplebryanbrown · 20/05/2019 11:46

Could you send a card asking for your card and book back?

DanglyTassles · 20/05/2019 14:19

Yes please send at least one more card and maybe another book before you give up.

FoxSquadKitten · 20/05/2019 14:48

But Op didn't send the book

Pizzaaddict · 20/05/2019 14:51

I actually had a dream about this thread where i tracked the man down and warned him about this thread 😂

ShesABelter · 20/05/2019 14:53

You had one date then fell out and you posted a card through his door..after one date. Bit weird.

DogHairEverywhere · 20/05/2019 15:24

Or a magazine? Shake it up a bit, keep him guessing what paper based product might arrive next, through his violated letterbox

TixieLix · 20/05/2019 15:36

Maybe the Tinder date was a psychiatrist and this was the card the OP left?

Aibu to feel the absolute RAGE with this Tinder date?
DanglyTassles · 20/05/2019 15:40

Maybe do a lovely origami crane for him?

(Tutorial is on youtube)

ThatCurlyGirl · 20/05/2019 16:59

Cancel the card

Bubblegumgal · 20/05/2019 17:23

@pizzaaddict

That’s hilarious 😂😂

ThatssomebadhatHarry · 20/05/2019 17:38

Op how exactly does the postman violate the mailbox often? Grin

LimeKiwi · 20/05/2019 18:04

I'm another one wondering just how the postman's violating the box but was afraid to ask Grin

Rtruth · 20/05/2019 18:52

Maybe we are the vulnerable clients!
Maybe the original post was the card!

The world makes much more sense now,

FoxSquadKitten · 20/05/2019 20:19

Rtruth I see clearly now 🤩🧘‍♂️🤯

pineapplebryanbrown · 20/05/2019 20:45

You ought to send a letter explaining about the card, the book, the card, the book and the card.