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AIBU?

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Aibu to feel the absolute RAGE with this Tinder date?

405 replies

Pulipatchouli · 16/05/2019 22:50

I met a guy for a date and really liked him.
We fell out. Because I left a card through his letterbox which he said endangered his vulnerable clients. Obviously i found this offensive and utterly ridiculous. I'm sure his postman violates his mailbox often!
He keeps messaging me to say 'thanks for the lovely book you sent me but I don't want to go out with you'
And other patronising shit .
I am full of RAGE.

Because he acts like I am sending him presents to win him back when he is obviously a vain plonker!!
And breathe

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MarthasGinYard · 16/05/2019 23:03

'Absolute rage'

You sound like some kind of stalker TBH

happybunny007 · 16/05/2019 23:03

What sort of card?

Pulipatchouli · 16/05/2019 23:03

Why why why does Aibu do this?!!!
I sent him one card!!

Now other people must be sending him stuff which he attributes to me!!

I did not send his a book! He sent me a weird message after I dropped one little card, so I completely left it. Fair enough.

It's INFURIATING!

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GimmieTheCoffeeAndNooneDies · 16/05/2019 23:04

What was the book? Did it have pictures?

SpeedyBojangles · 16/05/2019 23:04

What did the card say? And why would his clients be affected by it? What does he do?

Bubblegumgal · 16/05/2019 23:05

You went on 1 date & a week later posted (in person) a card through his letterbox?
Omg I have sooo many questions...
what did the card say?
Why did you post it?
How do you know where he lives?
Why does he have clients living with him?
Why did you also send him a book?

Celebelly · 16/05/2019 23:05

Just say 'I have not sent you anything, please stop contacting me' and move on. This all seems v peculiar.

Merryoldgoat · 16/05/2019 23:05

What do you mean about vulnerable clients?

Why did you fall out?

MRex · 16/05/2019 23:05

Following to find out what the book was.
helpful

ceh7777 · 16/05/2019 23:06

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VladmirsPoutine · 16/05/2019 23:06

I think he's well shot of you tbh. Who posts a card after one tinder date! Grin

BlackcurrantJamontoast · 16/05/2019 23:07

was the book the kama sutra?

chaoscategorised · 16/05/2019 23:07

So you went on one date, fell out over something and then you posted him a card (to make up from the falling out?). Now he's getting books in the post that he assumes are from you? This is all very confusing...

petrasolano · 16/05/2019 23:07

What was the card for ?

PuppetShowInTheSoundofMusic · 16/05/2019 23:08

Why are you posting a card through his door if your sole contact has been one date and an electronic messaging row?

Taking at face value, it is a bit weird and a bit stalker.

What would you say to a woman who gave that account and had a one off Tinder date coming to her home to leave a card?

What did the card say?

Butchyrestingface · 16/05/2019 23:09

Why did you send him a card? Confused

AutumnCrow · 16/05/2019 23:10

Was it a bible?

GimmieTheCoffeeAndNooneDies · 16/05/2019 23:10

Was it a 'save the date' card?

soulrunner · 16/05/2019 23:11

You should message to say you didn’t send the book so when that person murders him the police won’t think it’s you.

Fiveredbricks · 16/05/2019 23:11

Why are you putting cards through his door? How did you even know where his door was after one date?

WHY would you think posting a card - to someone you've had one date with and already fallen out with after a week - would be an 'ok' thing to do?

Butchyrestingface · 16/05/2019 23:11

And why did you fall out?

AutumnCrow · 16/05/2019 23:11

Was it The Time Machine?

Fiveredbricks · 16/05/2019 23:11

@GimmieTheCoffeeAndNooneDies 😂 you win this thread.

arethereanyleftatall · 16/05/2019 23:11

You've got RAGE over this? I've got to be honest, that seems a tad like an overreaction.

chubbychipmonk · 16/05/2019 23:12

What did the card say?????? I can't go to sleep not knowing this!!!