I walked away from the man I loved because I just couldn’t cope with the following list! Before I tell you the list he is very attractive, financially stable and incredibly intelligent! Can I ask if you, as a woman could forge a life with this man;
Complex sexual practices to include delivering pain, bisexuality and exhibitionism.
Workaholic
Unable to empathise/ display compassion. I would go as far as to suggest he might be a sociopath.
He didn’t buy me as much as a birthday card/ cup of coffee in a year of dating.
Periods of severe depression and suicidal ideation.
Constantly compared my looks/figure to other women and talked about ‘beautiful young men’! I have been left feeling very unattractive and low, despite him frequently telling me how beautiful I am.
Sometimes unnecessarily unkind and would create issues to be able to verbally chastise me/ ignore me.
He would gave actual, childlike tantrums!
All decisions re; telephone calls, catch-ups had to be decided by him, he never agreed to see me/ speak to me if I made the suggestion!
He has no social network. He doesn’t make an effort to stay in touch with family and friends, never married, no DC etc at almost 50!
Most of his relationships ended before 12 months!
He constantly told me he wanted me, wanted to settle down but his actions, attitude and behaviours meant that there was absolutely no way that I could stay without becoming completely broken!
I miss him! Tell me I’ve done the right thing and nobody would have been able to make that work! 