Husband Business trip Bangkok

[fred74]

My husband has insisted he needed to go on a work trip to Bangkok. From find my iPhone app I have found out he spent the first night in a go-go dancer/sex club. He left for a short period of time with drew £500 and returned. We have been married for 18 years and I feel absolutely disgusted by this. I am considering hiring a private detective to see what he gets up to. Any advice/thoughts greatly appreciated.

Sorry just read update. Didn’t RTFT after typing but not submitting my other post yesterday

So sorry for you. Really not very nice

I hate it when people say dummy thread or its not true. I posted the other day and had the same said about my post and it genuinely was 100% true

Oh gosh. Well as you've already told the children I assume there's no going back now. It's game over. So just try to divide up assets as fairly as you can and get on with a new life without eachother . He's been a fool and now he pays the real price. Good luck to you both in your new lives.

sorry didn't mean to cause offence, just felt I'd invested a lot of time reading it and then it didn't really add up with the op telling her kids their father had been unfaithful. I know people do do things like this in anger but I dunno, maybe it's just me being cynical for once

He has n't necessarily spent all the money in one night. Would people forgive if just looking

No

Depends on the age of OP's children.

Why would you tell the children before he's even home?!

Crikey, he confessed easily! How upsetting for you.

Who even says "Go-Go Girls"?

Very 1960s.

My mother the uber nercissist would delight in telling us if my father had transgressed, even if he had only poured the tea out into a cup wrongly

So sorry to read this OP.
He has ended your marriage. If you think he might have done anything like this before you do need to have a test.

Their "Daddy", don't forget.

OP married 18 years.