This is another ring one. It's a bit sad, and quite outing (feel another name change coming on).
I lost my engagement ring this time of year (this is years ago), searched absolutely everywhere for it: very upset about losing it.
ExH and I had been through the adoption procedure. Anyone who has been there knows you get more and more excited the further along the process you get. I think it was about 18 months to two years and finally, the day of The Panel came. It was the end of April - just before ring went missing.
Social worker takes us downstairs from where the panel is being held; the likelihood that we'd be given two siblings had been discussed many times. SW had the children's report in front of her. Decided to tell us their names and ages. More excitement.
Went upstairs to Panel, which is akin to being in court to be procescuted for a crime, but you don't know what the crime is, let alone why you're suspected of committing it. (I know that it has to be that way, but that makes it no less nerve-wracking.) Panel decides to allow us to adopt one child at first, but not the children that I, stupidly, had mentally and emotionally prepared for.
We took this as a blow. SW's were also surprised. I was in mild shock (I felt very cold) because it was yet one more disappointment. I looked at my then husband and just knew that the marriage was over. I can't describe it, but it was a feeling of absolute certainty. And fear. Nevertheless the marriage limped on throughout the summer. He left in the October and I found it very difficult. (I didn't make it harder for him though, I didn't contact him or anything.)
I decided to go stay with my sister on another continent. I was preparing the house for being away a long time, etc. Had some bed linen in tumbler and heard a metal-clanking-around-in-there noise. When I went to look, I found my engagement ring inside a pillow case.
The following May I was at a beach party, my sister's mate was messing around with tarot cards. She told me that My DH had someone new (I had no idea but it was true). Told me that it had started in May last year (when my engagement ring first disappeared).
So the ring went missing when exH decided to consummate, if you like, his affair with OW (I think they were 'friends' before that, they worked together) and reappeared when the marriage was officially over. The tarot card person had said that the affair started in "May of last year" which coincided with the way I'd felt when I had looked across at him at him after the Panel.
It was just strange getting the ring back when it was all over .. you would think the ring would go when it was over, not reappear.
I think the story that sticks with me most on this thread is the one about the fire. (Being dragged out of bed by your mum.) Just imagine if your parents hadn't listened to you when you sensed that you shouldn't sleep in your own room that night? Doesn't bear thinking about.