To visit the doctors? (TMI warning)

[SofaSurfer20]

Let me take you through it and you decide if i should go to the doctors.

For what its worth we are trying for a baby and I am not due period till Sunday 14th April (i have period every 7ish weeks).

Sunday night my partner and I had sex, very rough but very good. Immediately after we finished i were sore inside and 2 hours later the pain increased so much i had to take pain killers.

Woke up Monday morning as usual, sore but nothing drastic. Took DD to school and started studying. Then shortly after my stomach started hurting so much I took 2 30/500mg Co-codamol and 1 250mg Naproxen tablet with a hot water bottle. Even so i was doubled over in pain. I started bleeding but only a small amount (I use a menstrual cup). I was topped up on pain medication all day.

Tuesday, I was in so much pain all day, doubled over even after pain killers. And a hot water bottle all day. Around 5:45pm I finally had some reprieve and got a call from work to go in for a couple hours. I agreed and went in. By the time i got there I was in agony again, my boss asked me 4 times if i was ok, then she sent me home less than 2 hours after I got there. I changed cup once in the morning and it only had a little in it. I changed it again at 2:50pm eith about 2tbsp full (just before picking up DD) and didn't change it again till this morning.

This morning there was about 1tbsp full. 17hours. Today I'm in agony again, taken pain killers and got a hot water bottle on as hot as I can stand it. Barely moved today.

This is not normal at all for me, i never have this much pain and the bleeding is very unusual for me. Usually day 1 and 2 get steadily heavier until day 3 where its very heavy then eases off day 4 and barely anything day 5.

If you've got this far please don't suggest A&E as no, Im not going up there.

AIBU to go to the doctors today? I feel like crap and in so much pain.

There’s more than one level to rough sex than what you have read.
And how do you know it wasn’t OP in control? It says ‘WE had sex’ not ‘HE had rough sex with me’
Her choice, what she’s comfortable with.

Hope your appointment went ok op

@gisel leave OP alone. Stop bringing your shame and judgement here, it’s simply not needed.
OP I’m glad you’re seeing a doctor I hope that you’re ok

OP also said it was good, not that anyone seems to have noticed that part...

Well I don't care if you tell me she's comfortable. She's obviously not comfortable now is she!

rough sex? ooh crossing my legs at that one thank you

Oh I noticed alright. It was the first thing I noticed.

I also noticed that she chose to bring her mother with her to the appointment rather than her partner.

Sounds like an infection? Uterine infections are awful, I genuinely felt like I was dying when I had one! Glad you have a doctors appointment, hope they manage to treat you quickly! 💐

Hope you are ok OP and Dr has been able to help x

Why mention it then?

No - I actually read the thread. Her 'DP' is minding their child while she brings her mother to the appointment.

I'm not being goady. But I know what I'm reading here.

"Well I don't know what it is, so I can't comment on whether it might be the cause of the bleeding or not!
I also don't know, have never seen nor used a menstrual cup, so I also don't know F all about that either!"

Then why pick this thread to weigh in on?

I couldn't give a shit if you did a handstand and your DP launched himself from the top of the wardrobe into you.

That's not what I'm reading here.
I'm reading that the OP feels that the rough sex is why she's in so much pain now.

THAT is not me clutching my pearls. THAT is something wrong.

Because it all sounds off to me. Not off as in she's a troll, but off as in she's not actually enjoying it as much as she says.

Gisel my DP and I had rough sex and I ended up hospitalised. Turns out it is/was gallstones and an infected gallbladder.

See, it's possible for something to happen and then a person ends up ill and there is no correlation.

Also, the OP took her mother to ensure her DD was being looked after by her parent, not because she is scared of her husband or in am abusive relationship, which is what you are suggesting.

Gisel, it's perfectly possible to be injured from perfectly normal sex. Things can get a bit sore and swollen afterwards, when there has been a very enthusiastic session. Gp told me it's 'honeymoon disease'.

Op said she had a full on session that she very much enjoyed. Until she says different, leave her alone!

Christ, rough masturbation could have resulted in the same for the OP. Are you going to suggest that would be a form of self-harm?

@Gisel Just leave it now. At no point has the OP said anything that insinuates she's unhappy with her partner, their sex life or anything but the pain she is in. If you don't know about rough sex then don't read up on the internet about it. Of course you'll find things that sound horrific, but that doesn't mean the OP is unhappy.

No, I'm just dim.