To visit the doctors? (TMI warning)

[SofaSurfer20]

Let me take you through it and you decide if i should go to the doctors.

For what its worth we are trying for a baby and I am not due period till Sunday 14th April (i have period every 7ish weeks).

Sunday night my partner and I had sex, very rough but very good. Immediately after we finished i were sore inside and 2 hours later the pain increased so much i had to take pain killers.

Woke up Monday morning as usual, sore but nothing drastic. Took DD to school and started studying. Then shortly after my stomach started hurting so much I took 2 30/500mg Co-codamol and 1 250mg Naproxen tablet with a hot water bottle. Even so i was doubled over in pain. I started bleeding but only a small amount (I use a menstrual cup). I was topped up on pain medication all day.

Tuesday, I was in so much pain all day, doubled over even after pain killers. And a hot water bottle all day. Around 5:45pm I finally had some reprieve and got a call from work to go in for a couple hours. I agreed and went in. By the time i got there I was in agony again, my boss asked me 4 times if i was ok, then she sent me home less than 2 hours after I got there. I changed cup once in the morning and it only had a little in it. I changed it again at 2:50pm eith about 2tbsp full (just before picking up DD) and didn't change it again till this morning.

This morning there was about 1tbsp full. 17hours. Today I'm in agony again, taken pain killers and got a hot water bottle on as hot as I can stand it. Barely moved today.

This is not normal at all for me, i never have this much pain and the bleeding is very unusual for me. Usually day 1 and 2 get steadily heavier until day 3 where its very heavy then eases off day 4 and barely anything day 5.

If you've got this far please don't suggest A&E as no, Im not going up there.

AIBU to go to the doctors today? I feel like crap and in so much pain.

To my pearl clutching self, any kind of sex that does internal damage to me, would not be what I'd be into.

@Gisel
OP has said shes going to the doctor so her question has been answered

Fucking hell, what am I reading??

"A rough sex tip for the guys

Girls like rough sex. Of course, not all the time! But every now and then, a good round of rough sex can make them feel alive. Somehow, being dominated once in a while with aggression turns a girl on. There’s something about a man’s physical strength and animal-like aggression that can awe a girl all the time!"

PMSL. Ye, I'm sure they all love it. FFS.

You can get internally injured during sex without needing to be particularly violent- a scratch deep inside from careless fingers can do it. Horrible. Put me right off...

OP, I'm sorry, but you're very defensive about this rough sex thing. I really hope you tell the GP everything. I hope you are enjoying it. What I might like and you have said you like it, do not necessarily need to be the same. What I would make sure that you do though, is describe what happened so the GP knows. Then she'll be able to see if it was the sex or something else that is causing the bleeding.
I would also suggest, that if the 'rough sex' is the actual cause of so much pain, bleeding and distress, perhaps you need to talk to your partner to discuss his use of this sort of sex in the future.

I hope you're in the doctors now and being seen. It could a number of things but I would stop using the cup until you know what it is. Hope you get sorted

Gisel, she said it's not normal for her. So whatever they do doesn't usually cause her pain.

It's not OP be8ng defensive, though a couple of posters have been defending rough sex.

Hope your appt goes well OP

Ok, well I hope the OP does explain, as I found this information on the same website.

The bad side of rough sex – Don’t get carried away

Rough sex, just the way it sounds, is rough. You’re dealing with sensitive body parts here, do remember to be gentle while playing in the hay. As they say, never do anything that you wouldn’t want to explain to the paramedics.

Uncontrolled rough sex can leave a guy broken and a girl bruised. Here are a few cautions you need to keep in mind.

#1 Broken penis. If a girl sits down heavily or the guy aggressively penetrates deep, this is definitely possible.

#2 Penetrating too deep in a hurried motion can damage a girl’s cervix which can lead to bleeding or bruising.

#3 It’s difficult to control ejaculation and orgasms while having rough sex. [Read: How to last longer during sex without any difficulty]

#4 Your protection can get damaged while doing the rough nasty.

#5 Tears in the vaginal walls due to aggressive rough sex.

If you notice any painful swellings or bleeding after rough sex, consult your doctor, especially if the symptoms last for more than a couple of days.

I'm laughing at broken penises I must say.

@Gisel knock it off now, we get it, you don't understand rough sex, it's not for you etc etc.

OP I hope you're ok!

It’s not the Gisel show. Your concern has been more than expressed.

Hope you’re ok OP

Well I'm sorry, but if the OP is being internally damaged by her partner in the name of some 'rough sex', I think she needs her eyes to be opened. FFS.

Penetrating too deep in a hurried motion can damage a girl’s cervix

Sorry, shouldn't that read 'a woman's cervix'?

FFS.... Some baffling naivety on here. 'Rough sex' OBVIOUSLY could only mean some extreme definition pulled off the Internet at random.... Definitely not just a good old hard shag of course. 🙄

I’m sure she will if she wants to. As a grown consenting woman, it’s her call.

I think we’ve all got it thanks, @Gisel.

Hope you’re okay, OP.

@Gisel really you should drop it.

The OP didn’t ask for your opinion on her sex life. Concern as to whether it was consensual was expressed and she’s answered that. You’re taking it too far. Despite some of the tripe you can find in the internet some women enjoy rough sex. It’s not for you or anyone else to judge or mock. She is a grown woman having consensual sex. What people like or understand is up to them, subjective and not for you to make them feel victimised or less than because they have sex other than missionary.

Hope you’re okay OP

You're not bloody helping this woman by telling her this is fucking normal.

OP, hope all is ok, I have had this happen to me several times and I’m pretty sure it’s party caused by PCOS and cervical erosion (I have both).

Ignore the people judging about the rough sex, sometimes we get a bit carried away and it feels good until afterwards (usually because of how wet things are down there). I have been to the gp before with a injury after sex.