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To visit the doctors? (TMI warning)

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SofaSurfer20 · 03/04/2019 12:23

Let me take you through it and you decide if i should go to the doctors.

For what its worth we are trying for a baby and I am not due period till Sunday 14th April (i have period every 7ish weeks).

Sunday night my partner and I had sex, very rough but very good. Immediately after we finished i were sore inside and 2 hours later the pain increased so much i had to take pain killers.

Woke up Monday morning as usual, sore but nothing drastic. Took DD to school and started studying. Then shortly after my stomach started hurting so much I took 2 30/500mg Co-codamol and 1 250mg Naproxen tablet with a hot water bottle. Even so i was doubled over in pain. I started bleeding but only a small amount (I use a menstrual cup). I was topped up on pain medication all day.

Tuesday, I was in so much pain all day, doubled over even after pain killers. And a hot water bottle all day. Around 5:45pm I finally had some reprieve and got a call from work to go in for a couple hours. I agreed and went in. By the time i got there I was in agony again, my boss asked me 4 times if i was ok, then she sent me home less than 2 hours after I got there. I changed cup once in the morning and it only had a little in it. I changed it again at 2:50pm eith about 2tbsp full (just before picking up DD) and didn't change it again till this morning.

This morning there was about 1tbsp full. 17hours. Today I'm in agony again, taken pain killers and got a hot water bottle on as hot as I can stand it. Barely moved today.

This is not normal at all for me, i never have this much pain and the bleeding is very unusual for me. Usually day 1 and 2 get steadily heavier until day 3 where its very heavy then eases off day 4 and barely anything day 5.

If you've got this far please don't suggest A&E as no, Im not going up there.

AIBU to go to the doctors today? I feel like crap and in so much pain.

OP posts:
SofaSurfer20 · 13/04/2019 16:50

Not been to doctors/hospital.

Not pregnant.

Fed up.

OP posts:
SpannerH · 13/04/2019 17:26

Are u still in pain?

SofaSurfer20 · 13/04/2019 19:12

Still a dull ache but ill live

OP posts:
picklemepopcorn · 13/04/2019 20:40

That's rough. I'd put a time limit on it- if it gets worse, or doesn't improve in (10?) days, go back. Ask how they know you don't have all these conditions we're worrying about.

Constant nagging pain is not normal.

MustShowDH · 18/04/2019 14:07

Just stopping by to see how you're doing???

SofaSurfer20 · 18/04/2019 21:31

@MustShowDH

Im better now thank you. X

OP posts:
Absofrigginlootly · 19/04/2019 22:31

I don’t understand why you have not insisted that you are given and internal exam and an ultrasound OP???! Don’t be so passive about your own health!

Pregnancy aside, you could have internal tears from the rough sex, or constant pelvic pain can be a sign of ovarian cancer.

I’m glad the pain has eased but don’t be so passive about your own health and well-being you must advocate for yourself!

MustShowDH · 19/04/2019 23:39

Glad to hear it Sofasurfer

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