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To visit the doctors? (TMI warning)

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SofaSurfer20 · 03/04/2019 12:23

Let me take you through it and you decide if i should go to the doctors.

For what its worth we are trying for a baby and I am not due period till Sunday 14th April (i have period every 7ish weeks).

Sunday night my partner and I had sex, very rough but very good. Immediately after we finished i were sore inside and 2 hours later the pain increased so much i had to take pain killers.

Woke up Monday morning as usual, sore but nothing drastic. Took DD to school and started studying. Then shortly after my stomach started hurting so much I took 2 30/500mg Co-codamol and 1 250mg Naproxen tablet with a hot water bottle. Even so i was doubled over in pain. I started bleeding but only a small amount (I use a menstrual cup). I was topped up on pain medication all day.

Tuesday, I was in so much pain all day, doubled over even after pain killers. And a hot water bottle all day. Around 5:45pm I finally had some reprieve and got a call from work to go in for a couple hours. I agreed and went in. By the time i got there I was in agony again, my boss asked me 4 times if i was ok, then she sent me home less than 2 hours after I got there. I changed cup once in the morning and it only had a little in it. I changed it again at 2:50pm eith about 2tbsp full (just before picking up DD) and didn't change it again till this morning.

This morning there was about 1tbsp full. 17hours. Today I'm in agony again, taken pain killers and got a hot water bottle on as hot as I can stand it. Barely moved today.

This is not normal at all for me, i never have this much pain and the bleeding is very unusual for me. Usually day 1 and 2 get steadily heavier until day 3 where its very heavy then eases off day 4 and barely anything day 5.

If you've got this far please don't suggest A&E as no, Im not going up there.

AIBU to go to the doctors today? I feel like crap and in so much pain.

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Gisel · 03/04/2019 17:20

Thank you @HollowTalk

sailorcherries · 03/04/2019 17:21

You seem to have a fetish for people riding each other Gisel.

Gisel · 03/04/2019 17:23

I strongly expect the posters commenting here are predominantly into rough sex. That's fair enough.
But telling a woman who has felt the need to mention the rough sex, that it couldn't possibly be the issue, suggests a certain ignorance.

FrogsAreMean · 03/04/2019 17:25

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sailorcherries · 03/04/2019 17:27

None of us have said the sex is not the reason for the pain. None of us have agreed with you that the OP is in an abusive relationship because they had rough sex and she is now sore.

Elephantina · 03/04/2019 17:27

I scrolled to the end to see if OP is OK?

Gisel · 03/04/2019 17:29

Well the OP has said the following:

'It felt good at the time, but afterwards i was very sore'

Gisel · 03/04/2019 17:29

None of us have said the sex is not the reason for the pain.

Oh yes you have.

Heismyopendoor · 03/04/2019 17:29

How are you doing OP?

purplelass · 03/04/2019 17:30

@Gisel
Just because Google says all those things are rough sex, doesn't mean that's what OP was up to. It's all (excuse the pun) shades of grey.
All that matters is OP took the advice to see the doctor and is hopefully by now feeling better.
Go start your own thread on judging other people's sex lives if that's what you're here for, see how that goes.

Cheeserton · 03/04/2019 17:31

Someone is seriously a bit obsessed. Cringe.

slashlover · 03/04/2019 17:31

Well the OP has said the following:

'It felt good at the time, but afterwards i was very sore'

But it may not have been the sex which caused this, it could have triggered something else. If there is that issue then gentle sex could have caused it, OP using a dildo could have caused it. YOU DON'T KNOW.

mommybear1 · 03/04/2019 17:32

Hope your ok Op

SosigisAndCornflourSauce · 03/04/2019 17:32

Gisel is this one of those games where you squeeze a word or a phrase into very post? ... I think you must have typed 'rough sex' about 47 times 🤣

Gisel · 03/04/2019 17:32

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Chillyegg · 03/04/2019 17:33

Everyone ignore Gisel

Hope your ok op?

drinthehouse · 03/04/2019 17:33

As pp have said it might be an ectopic (or a number of other things your GP can’t diagnose). You do need to go to A&E. I Think the rough sex is a red herring.

Greenlegobox · 03/04/2019 17:36

No big surprise the OP isn't back. I wouldn't be either if someone like Gisel hijacked my thread.

cantfindname · 03/04/2019 17:37

Looks like Gisel has scared off the OP with her stupid and ill-informed comments.

OP I hope the GP managed to find the problem and either treat you or send you for more specialised help. Flowers

FrancisCrawford · 03/04/2019 17:37

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MyGastIsFlabbered · 03/04/2019 17:39

Hope you're ok OP

purplelass · 03/04/2019 17:41

Just shove your nose right up their ass as far as you can.

Whatever floats your boat Gisel I'm not the judgy one here

Jellyonawonkyplate · 03/04/2019 17:46

Gisel the way you have reacted to this thread isn't normal, I suspect you have some issues with sex in general.

OP hope things are ok and you have some answers.

MIA12 · 03/04/2019 17:48

Just because Gisele is concerned that a woman may have been left bleeding and in terrible pain from sex doesn’t mean she has issues Jelly

Hope you’re ok OP.

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